reflection of significant events

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Over the course of my life from childhood to adulthood I have endured many significant events. These events not only impacted my life in both positive and negative ways, but they have strengthened me mentally, and challenged me to make better decisions in my life.
The first significant event I encountered was the lost of my father at the age of nine years old. Losing a family or friend can be devastating and overwhelming. The thoughts I had when I was informed about my father’s death were thoughts of negative and insecure. I felt lonely, abandoned and lost. At times I would dwell on how my life would turn out since I did not have my father to protect me, and give me the guidance I needed. I lost not just my father, but my best friend. Depression set over me throughout my last elementary school year through my entire middle school term. I was grieving, I felt as if I was alone and nobody could understand my pain. I often wondered why this would happen to me as if no one else lost loved ones. It was difficult to open up my emotions and speak about my issues to people, but as I started to open up I soon realize that having someone to talk to at that time did help me gain a better understanding towards my situation. I felt a load come off of me whenever I discussed my feelings to others. Going through this tough moment in my life not only made me stronger, but it helped me to learn that death is something we all will experience one day.
The next significant event I have faced in my life was becoming a mother. I gave birth to my son at age 20 years old. The challenges I faced with becoming a mother was not easy. I had issues with co-parenting my son and getting along with his father. The man I had a child with was very immature, a...

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...ard in life, it still might be hurtful to keep hearing from people about the death of friends and loved ones, and parents left to raise children alone; because I will be resurfacing my old hurt and pain. Hopefully I can find it as being supportive by sharing my testimony to help them move forward from their hurt.
Everyone will face challenges and significant events throughout their lives. Some people will overcome them and some will let their issues govern them. If we can recognize our issues and search for a way to prevail over them we will be allowing ourselves to grow and move forward in life. The challenges I faced were difficult, and I feel I will be an asset to people’s life because I can relate to some issues they face today. With the knowledge and education of social work I feel I will be equipped to help redirect people’s lives toward positive outcomes.

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