Why Is Lydia’s Elopement Perceived As a Disaster and How Does It Affect the Relationship of Elizabeth and Darcy?

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Jane Austen lived in the higher class society. It was the world she knew and as a very good observer, she was able to capture the reality of life on paper. The situations she is presenting in her books are very likely to happen in real life too. It is also the case of story of Lydia Bennet and her elopement with Mr Wickham. It was perceived as a disaster, but for the modern reader it can be rather incomprehensible. Why was Lydia’s elopement so scandalous?
Kristen Koster is explaining why it was more difficult for couples to get married then before: in 1753 The Marriage Act, or the Hardwicke Act, was published. It was preventing couples from hasty and secret marriages, because it required the reading of the Banns – Banns were read every Sunday for three subsequent weeks and they contained the order to notify all reasons why the couple should be prevented from marrying each other: “If any of you know cause or just impediment why these two persons should not be joined together in Holy matrimony, ye are to declare it ” (Koster). It enabled the couple’s families to learn about planned marriage and as the case may be to do everything to stop it. Another part of the Marriage Act of 1753 consisted of required parental consent for people under the age of 21 who wanted to marry. It was the case of Lydia, who would need her parents approval, she was only 16 years old. We can only speculate if she would get it. Her parents would be probably thinking of someone richer for their daughter than only a military man, but, especially Mrs Bennet, would be happy to marry her daughter off to the respectable gentleman, even if he was not so noble. Consequently, the parents would not be the risk. So why Wickham did not ask for Lydia’s hand directly?
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...to marry her – it would disgraced him too and he would lost his position in society. Only when she realized that, she discoverd that she loved Mr Darcy. It is hard to say if she would be so aware of her feeling even if the affair with Lydia did not happen.
Lydia’s so-called elopement was disasterous for the whole family. The views of that time society were very strict and living together without marriage was banned under the imminency of social exclusion of the whole family. Bennets were aware of the fact and that is the reason they were so frightened. Luckily, everything ended happily, when Mr Darcy saved the family. It was also one of the key moments of his relationship with Elizabeth – she truly realized her feelings towards him in the moment she revealed him Lydia’s fragility. And Mr Darcy showed his persisting feelings by bribing Mr Wickham with his own money.

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