Why Boys Don T Play With Dolls: The Men We Carry In Our Minds

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Having the opportunity to read many essays such as "The Man We Carry in Our Minds" by Scott Russell Sanders, "Girl" by Jamaica Kincaid, "Why Boys Don 't Play with Dolls" by Katha Pollitt, and "Our Barbies, Ourselves" by Emily Prager, it has been amazing for me. Now, I could better understand about how life would be much easier or much harder for many people through generations. In this paper, I want to argue and discuss about if biological, social, and cultural factor are important in shaping gender role. Also, I want to explore how females or males are more restricted by conventional gender role.
Briefly, I would like to analyze some key point before giving my own opinion about what this essay will treat. Thinking about the biological, social …show more content…

In other words, these factors affect the way in which people think; and how they behave in social situations. For instance, in “The Men We Carry in Our Mind,” Sanders wrote this essay based on his own experiences to let the readers know about his point of view in different situation through his life. Cultural factors are the beliefs, values, traditions, customs, laws, and language founded by a nation or a society. They include artistic value, marriage customs, and religious beliefs that are native to a particular region. When I read “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, I learned about the cultural factors that the author expressed in her essay to teach her daughter the best way to subsist in her society. Gender role is the role or conduct known by people as adequate to their gender (female or male), determined by their predominant norms. It is a group of societal norms showing what type of behaviors are generally possible, convenient or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex. A simple instance of this occurs in "Our Barbies, Ourselves," the author Emily Prager wrote that the Barbies (the preferred dolls by girls) created by Mr. Jack Ryan "looks like someone who …show more content…

From my own opinion without judging how people can think and respecting people 's different point of view, I believe biological factors are elements that definitely could affect the nature or outcome of human behavior. Contemplating different girls and boys, I have been analyzing how biological factors affect them in a positive way. When I see a girl playing with her dolls, I can observe how sensible and appreciable they are; and how they take care of their dolls. My interpretation of this is that girls were born with a sense of maternity. Despite that maternity is achieved when girls become women, I feel that girls come with this beautiful sense inside their bodies. This can explain how sensible girls are with their dolls. Girls appear to be little mothers. Many times, they play with her dolls without having a teacher that teaches them how to do it. Despite that there is not a teacher teaching how to be a mother or a school to study this important aspect in the women 's lives, the girls know how to take care of their dolls like mothers take care of their babies. In my particular opinion, I believe that the boys were born less sensitive than girls about maternity, but with an amazing, brave and strength that characterizes or describes the distinctive nature or features of the future men. From my point of view, I think boys have a brave, extraordinary strength that characterizes or

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