Tolstoy's Confessions

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Tolstoy’s confessions “the meaning of life”, he first starts out talking about the thought of killing himself because he was in despair and no longer wants to live; his life was meaningless to him. He wanted to find the answer to the question” what is the meaning of life? ” Or “why do I live?”, but in order to do so, he said that the branch of human knowledge was to answer the question of life. According to Tolstoy, if a person wants to live, then one has to understand the meaning of life, and seek it among people who sacrifice living, and not the ones who want to kill themselves (51). Answer the question from infinite to finite; Faith is irrational according to god’s laws; Laws of reason and experiment (83). Faith provides the answers to the question of life. Yes, I believe that Tolstoy’s confession has the correct view of life; people who value life are the ones who does not think of killing themselves because to them suicide is the greatest evil. Also, this is how we determine our life’s value - which people have to believe in themselves to move …show more content…

As well as, he will have the confidence to love and trust other human beings. “Need for attachment extends far beyond the need for sexual fulfillment” (118). However, if an infant loses attachment from his mother for some reason, then the infant will slowly feel miserable and no longer care about the absent attachment of his mother. Storr talks about the loss of attachment of an important significant other can make life seem meaningless. In order to get over the loneliness, the person needs to be a part of a larger community than family members. Yes, I believe that Storr has a correct view of life that everyone needs some kind of imitate relationship in their life, so life has a

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