'The Love Song Of J. Alfred Prufrock'

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J. Alfred Prufrock is a man who is destined to find the right women to with for the rest of his life. He always holds off finding the perfect women to another day, but time is ticking against him and he does not have much time left. In T.S. Eliot’s, “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” Illustrates Prufrock’s inability to interact with women in the coffee shop, fear of being turned down, and the significance of love and time.
J. Alfred Prufrock’s life consists of sitting in a coffee shop every day desperately waiting for the perfect women to walk in. Prufrock is a very shy and awkward person who is lonely for his entire life. “Let us go and make our visit/In the room the women come and go talking of Michelangelo” (Eliot Lines 12-14). Eliot
Alfred Prufrock always had a low self-esteem, and no confidence to take a chance with these girls. The reason why Prufrock was intimidated to go talk with these women is that he was scared to be turned down. He did not want to ask her on a date, and then the women reject him. “And should I then presume?/And how should I begin?” (Eliot 68-69). This quote is demonstrating how Prufrock is debating on whether and how he should approach a girl. He does not know how to start a conversation with a girl. He goes through these questions every day, and the result is the same every day. He is nervous and self conscious that the women will notice the bald spot on the back of his head and his thin physique. He is trying to find love, but his lack of confidence is holding him back. “And I have known the eyes already, known them all” (Eliot 55). Eliot is explaining how Prufrock knows all of the women who go through the coffee shop each day. He recognizes their eyes because because he sees them so often. As bad as he wants to go and talk with these women, he still will not do it in fear of being rejected. His scarce of being turned down makes his life lonely in a coffee shop for the rest of his life. J. Alfred Prufrock wants to be a hero and tries to compare himself to John the Baptist, Lazarus, and Hamlet. But his low self-esteem and self-consciousness caused him to think low of himself “Prufrock realizes that the best he can do in Shakespeare’s play is to be Polonius, who talks too much, annoys everyone, and is finally killed by accident when he is eavesdropping on Hamlet and his mother.” (Frazer, Timothy

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