Throughout the life of any man or woman north London, there is an indescribable amount of desire to be successful. Thoughts of Lamborghini’s, Ferraris, or a home on an island too foreign to pronounce contribute to sleepless nights. One’s whole life consists of buying bigger objects and becoming better in hopes of reaching the point where one can say “I am a success”. Success, especially in north London, is not a fixed point rather it is a progression in constructing a lifelong project plagued by an unmatched desire for peer gratification. Success, then, is not the measure of the common three central factors: appearance, status, and career. It is the legacy that is produced by a life well lived that encompasses these factors.
Before one can even speak to another person, judgment has already been passed based on their expensive suit, lustrous watch, and designer shoes. How can one be able to scale another’s level of achievement by the shirt on their back? Whether acknowledged or not, success is initially measured in appearance, one will work tirelessly to obtain the perfect wardrobe and nicest car to put on a display. This stems from the fact that an abundance of material possessions, new or expensive, displays wealth; commonly identified with success. In Laurence Shames’ Sweet Smell of Success, the reader observes as Shames tackles the idea of keeping up appearances:
…record numbers of young people continue to flock to law school…because it is considered a safe ticket…by external standards they will be ‘successes’. They will own homes, eat in better restaurants, dress well, and in some instances perform socially useful work. (Shames)
As Shames expresses, many young men and women seek MBA’s as an escape route to ensure a field where...
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...uccess is a forever unfinished project in the lives of every north Londoner. Through one’s appearance, merit, and career there is a search for gratification amongst one’s peers. However upon deeper inspection, success is seen not to be their modern wardrobe, polished reputation, nor their big office job. For success, it is the totality of all these and more. For success, the journey truly is the destination.
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