The Importance Of Arranged Marriage In The Scarlet Letter

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“What you discover on your own is always more exciting than what someone else discovers for you” stated by the popular film critic Terrence Rafferty. Imagine being stripped of your free will and you have no power to get it back. Imagine having your family decide your life for you despite your age. Imagine losing all contact with your friends and family and beginning a whole new life with someone you didn’t know. In The Scarlet Letter, a novel by Nathaniel Hawthorne, a woman named Hester Prynne was forced into a marriage by her family with a man named, Roger Chillingworth. Her arranged marriage with Chillingworth caused Hester to turn away from him and commit a sin that will lay a mark on her forever. She was forced to wear a scarlet letter …show more content…

Often times, families do not consider the needs of their daughters above their own, especially through their culture and traditions. You often hear families say “we know our daughter the best and will make the best decisions for her.” The more families that think this comment is accurate will continue to push past their daughters' voice and care only about themselves. Many people continue to believe that an arranged marriage is not common anymore and rarely done by families, but it remains the dominant form of matrimony in much of the world, rich or poor said Amit Batabyal, a professor at the Rochester Institute of Technology. A woman named Upasana Chauhan from India states how important the power of this saying had on her life as a woman “Do not fall in love with somebody who does not belong to our caste.” Her family used to lock her inside to learn how to cook and clean and show her where she will spend most of her day, the kitchen. In her story, she stated “They never forgot to remind me that I could not even think of a marriage built on love. Family friends would advise my parents to quickly have me married so that I would not be their responsibility anymore.” Once she has found the man of her dreams in her own family disowned her and took away her independence for four years until finally her voice was heard and she had the strength to stand up to her culturally isolated …show more content…

It is proven that women forced into a marriage with no love with the man become depressed and lonely. In a marriage what holds up couples is their affection and compatibility with each other, which is not given when you are forced into a marriage without their consent. A Pakistani woman kills 17 members of the family because her voice wasn't being heard from her family. She started to develop a mental illness that took over her mind and into killing her family. The bride was just targeting her husband, but, instead affected her family with the poison that her best friend gave her. She stated "I repeatedly asked my parents not to marry me against my will” her voice was not heard within her family and urged her to cause a disaster that she will live by for the rest of her life. Although, Hester did not poison Chillingworth she did cause a sin like the Pakistani bride and will live in regret of that mistake forever. Hester dealt with her pain and found her happiness within her daughter, Pearl. Pearl brought her hope and joy that her life will be full of happiness despite her mistake. "Come away, mother! Come away, or yonder old black man will catch you! He hath got hold of the minister already. Come away, mother or he will catch you!” (Hawthorne 126). Pearl’s comparison of Chillingworth to the “black man”

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