Suzanne Pharr's A Match Made in Heaven

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In Suzanne Pharr's A Match Made in Heaven, the author illustrates the concept of irony. Pharr uses irony and tone to shock the readers. She does this by showing them that two people who share contrasting beliefs can converse and in the end benefit from it. Upon boarding the plane to Portland, Oregon, both Pharr and the Promise Keepers(The Promise Keepers are a group of white men organizing around issues of women and people of color) have stereotypes of each other.(237) During the flight, Pharr stops "trying to escape through reading" (238) and begins chatting with one of the Promise Keepers. They talk about the stereotypes and misunderstandings they had. By the end of the plane ride, the two passengers had grown to accept and appreciate the other's ideas. The tone of the article changes throughout the course of events. By using a negative tone to show the false pretenses she has about the Promise Keepers it makes readers think the article will end up differently. It should shock the readers in the end, when Pharr shows them the great deal of respect she has for the Promise Keeper making the tone of the final paragraphs quite positive.

While boarding the plane and also during the plane ride, both Pharr and the Promise Keepers had false ideas about each other. The tone of the reading is very negative. Pharr says, "For the last couple years I have been watching the growth of the Promise Keepers with fascination and fear." (237) Pharr, not knowing what the Promise Keepers were all about, had mixed feelings about them. She was intrigued by them because they dealt with issues concerning people of color and women (237) Pharr told the Promise Keeper she was a ."..a feminist, a civil rights worker, and a lesbian..." (238) ...

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...r thinking, "We're sunk." (237) When Pharr decides to give in, she is willing to hear another persons views, who she knows are very different from her own. Surprisingly she learns and benefits from his thoughts and ideas. The conversation made Pharr ."..think more deeply about the difference between the right's leaders and its followers..." (240) The Promise Keeper does the same from Pharr's ideas. As Pharr says "How do we talk to people who are different from ourselves?" "How do we hold different beliefs and still live in harmony?" (241) Pharr answers her own questions by her conversation with the Promise Keeper. She shows that two people can share different beliefs and still have a mutual respect for each other.

Works Cited

Suzanne Pharr, "A Match Made in Heaven: Lesbian Leftie Chats with a Promise Keeper," The Progressive (August 1996): 28-29;

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