Sociological Imagination: Self Image And Self-Image, And Beauty

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Sociological Imagination is essential realizing that how you feel personally, emotionally, or physically is also being felt by everyone else in society, and this opens up a whole new perspective of understanding. And this new understanding is so important to being compassionate and empathetic with someone because you are also in the same boat. Like when it comes to self-image and self-love. I always had the issue of loving myself for what God made me, because of what I 've internalized on watching tv, reading magazines, and etc. Viewing images of skinny, blonde hair, blue-eyed, gorgeous women, I associated was a real beauty. Much to my displeasure to learn, that millions of women also have internalized this. It’s also displeasing to know that …show more content…

At a young age, I already internalized so much self-hatred because of the color of my skin and hair. I struggle with this immensely since I’d watch Disney movies, that only popularize one racial demographic, and the only person that I could semi look up to was Princess Jasmine from Aladdin. But there was no real representation of minorities when I was growing up, so I strived like any other person would to be a Disney princess. I always asked my mom to put weave in my hair or do something with it, so I could have long flown hair like Princess Ariel, from The Little Mermaid movie, or strive to look as beautiful as Princess Aurora when she was sleeping. And I continued to struggle with these ideas that what is beautiful was to be white. And I just couldn 't comprehend at the time, that I was already beautiful just the way I am. It wasn’t until I got to high school, where I somewhat shed these ideas on what was beautiful. I just realized that the media and the movies are essentially fake and photoshopped. And the models for the tv and magazines were too boney and hungry. I got used to my curves and by the body by that time. But I didn’t really show forth pride for my melanin nor color. I just accepted the fact that I was black and born that way. I didn’t realize how rich and important my color is as well as my culture. It was until I started school, here in the University of Boston, …show more content…

and this has been internalized by everyone in the African Diaspora. This affects their self-esteem, respect, and their love for themselves. because they believe that they are ugly or not beautiful because they are not white. Black men help the situation neither, where they segregate their own race, like in music videos and movies. Black men, always ensured that they have the lights skins models and dancers, that have the hourglass figure with big butts. This is particularly damaging to our women whose skin is darker, body different from what it saw on Tv. it 's hard to find someone who has the same feature as you on tv when it is only one form that is being shown. And to relate it to slavery, and how the African-Americans were so divided within each other because of the field slave vs house slave mentality which is an example of the In-group and out-group (Sociology 101 Lecture, “Groups and Organization”, September 29th, 2016.) The field slaves didn 't care for the slave master and don 't respect him at all because he doesn 't respect them as human beings. Whereas, the house slaves, even though they receive the same treatment as the field slave, they believe that they are better than the field slaves. because they get to live in the house and is able to eat the same food as their master (even though the food is just scraps of what was left). And they are overtly concern for their

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