Self-Evaluation of My Behavior

Self-evaluation is definitely the most difficult type of criticism to receive. When you are hearing your faults from other people they usually go in one ear and out the other, but when you take a step back and realize for yourself that something needs to be changed within your personality, is it when you truly do something about it. I have a problem with allowing myself to become attached to girls that I have crushes on. I dream about how things could be and I imagine a relationship inside my head far before there is even a chance. I also tend to take any sign of affection as a girl having a “thing” for me. These behaviors are what need to be changed, it has become detrimental to my social life and something needs to be done.

I do not think I can explain why I do this, but I will try and do so anyway. I have had one girlfriend in my life time, that is it. I went out with her for a little over a year from the time I was 15 until I was 16, so pretty much from the summer of my freshman year up until the summer of sophomore year. I have had many, many crushes since then but none of them have gone anywhere, this is because of my problem. When I meet a new girl I start to talk to her and hang out with her until I feel that something may be possible with her but I guess I am not very good at judging when things are right and when they are not.

After that I will try and move in the direction...