Romeo And Juliet Love Analysis

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Romantic love, an idea that can be described as the quintessence of human pleasure, causes more pain than it does happiness. This concept of love, as portrayed by countless works, is simply unrealistic. The word “love” can be used to describe relationships where there is a mutual caring; for example, the relationships between family members or friends. This is far different from the idea of romantic love that is oftentimes portrayed as lust. In “The Raven,” by
Edgar Allen Poe, pain caused by love drives the main character to the point of insanity. In
Romeo and Juliet,” by William Shakespeare, love is broken due to circumstances out of the characters’ control. Contrarily, in Shakespeare’s “Sonnet 116,” love is portrayed as everlasting,
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In Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet,” fate is a common theme. There are countless instances where fate negatively affects Romeo and Juliet’s relationship. For example, the letter informing Romeo that Juliet is not dead is withheld by the mail service. “I could not send / it—here it is again— / Nor get a messenger to bring it thee,/ So fearful were they of infection” (Shakespeare 5.1, 14-16). This eventually leads to the deaths of both characters, proving that love can be beyond your control. In certain circumstances it can be extreme enough to cause death. If love was as it is portrayed in common media, this would not be the case. Another example of love being out of one’s control is when the Prince banishes Romeo. Romeo was faced with a situation where he was to either die or fight; he chose to defend himself. “A gentler judgment vanished from his lips: / Not body’s death, but body’s banishment” (Shakspeare 3.3, 10). This banishment caused endless suffering for both characters. Romeo was simply defending himself, yet they both face great amounts of pain because of this event that could not be controlled. This further proves that romantic love is not a positive force. When it is out of one’s control, it causes pain. In summary, romantic love cannot be controlled and as a result it causes …show more content…

In sonnet 116, Shakespeare talks about love as something that lasts to death, and cannot be broken. Contrarily, in Romeo and Juliet, Shakespeare describes Romeo as going from “loving” Rosaline to “loving” Juliet in one day. “That fair for which love groaned for and would die / With tender Juliet matched, is now not fair” (Shakespeare 2, 3-4). This shows that Shakespeare acknowledges that love is not everlasting. Writing about both everlasting love and love that was found in a day, he contradicts himself, thus proving that romantic love is not everlasting. The underlying theme is that romantic love is not something that lasts until death. Love can last a long time, but the unrealistic idea of romantic love does not last until

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