Raise A Thinking Child Analysis

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"Why do people die?" What not to say: Absolute guarantees are never a good idea. "Telling your child 'We'll definitely be okay' isn't really accurate. Better to use qualifying terms, such as 'Most planes don't crash,'" says Brooks. These responses quell fears but are still honest. If a pet dies, it's best not to say something like "It's so sad that he's gone, but we'll get another dog soon." A preschooler -- who views his pets as part of the family -- might think, "If I die, will Mommy get a new boy?" How to answer: Rather than muddle through a talk on death and dying, cut to the heart of the matter. "A good first response is 'What do you think about this?'" says Myrna Shure, Ph.D., author of Raising a Thinking Child. This is not a dodge.

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