Pole Dancing Research Paper

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Women’s Sexuality is the “Problem”, Not the Pole
In the metaphorical, and literal, sense of the term I wanted this dance experience to “turn my world upside down”. For my ethnographic study of a dance I attended a pole dancing class at Aerial Bliss in Madison, and it was one of the most fun things I have ever done. My instructor, Regan, created a very open, accepting, and safe environment. There were six people participating in the class, all of which appeared female, and we were encouraged to be creative and expressive in our movements. While I had respect for pole dancing before this class, I now recognize the strength and confidence that has to go into pole dancing to make it graceful. Even though I loved the class, I wasn’t comfortable …show more content…

An example of this is ballet versus belly dancing. Ballet traditionally presents women as demure and modest, whereas belly dancing is exotic and sensual. Both put a woman on display, but people were more accepting of ballet because the female fit her traditional roles, but belly dancing was sexy and broke the “rules” of traditional gender roles. One of the best arguments that the pole is not the issue is through the history of pole dancing. The origin of pole dancing has many roots with different purposes. One form of pole dancing originated in China during the 12th century. It was used in circus acts and the pole was used for showcasing strength. Another early account of pole dancing was in India, where men would use the pole to train for other sports, such as wrestling. As demonstrated throughout historic examples, both men and women have used pole for training and entertainment, and they were respected for it. Circus performers in China even showed off their burns from the pole as if they were medals (“History of Pole”). Conversely, people who do pole today are often afraid to admit they pole in fear of judgment. They try to distance themselves as much as they can from the sexy version of pole dancing by citing that men originally pole danced. This only perpetuates the idea that pole dancing is less acceptable when a woman does it because doesn’t fit the ideals of modesty for women …show more content…

She informed me that most people who attend her class are female, but she’s encountered a whole range of genders and ages. She’s even had 60 year old women come in because she wanted to build strength and confidence (Regan). While I believe that pole dancing should be for everyone, the idea of a man or an older lady pole dancing doesn’t come with the same critique that it does for a young women. When an old lady pole dances, the effect is more comedic or impressive than sexy, which is why they would be more likely to be praised for trying something like pole dancing. A perfect example of this is when a 70 year old woman pole danced for Italia’s Got Talent and all of the judges’ remarks were about how impressive that was considering her age (Bitette). If a man pole danced, they would be criticised for taking on a feminine role of sexuality, which further proves people think pole dancing is just about female sexiness. Men who pole dance are fearful of getting comments like “Get your heels on,” or “That’s a woman's place,” more so than being called a slut

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