Personality Development Sociology

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Susanna Anderson
Professor Ratliff
Sociology 101
13 October 2014

Born to my young, working-class parents in November of 1984, I was the last of four daughters. The first six months of my life were spent in my birthplace of Omaha Nebraska. Then my father took a job that moved my family to Rock Springs Wyoming. We continued to move every couple years, until finally settling down in Northern Colorado where I spent ten years before turning eighteen. By his early twenties, my father was honorably discharged from the army which paid for him to go to heating and air conditioning school. His hard work ethic, travel and overtime, allowed my mother to stay home and home school me and my three sisters. Though my family struggled financially, I did not …show more content…

According to this theory, growing up in a white, blue-collar, religious family is the product that defines who I believe myself to be. If this theory is true, there would have been two vastly different social experiences that shaped my personality. The first would be my experience with homeschooling and learning gender roles from my mother. My mother cooked, cleaned and managed our studies. My sisters and I took on similar roles and were expected to help keep up the housework. There were explicit house rules that were clearly stated by my parents. Once I entered public school the social roles were no longer clear. I recognized that many of my peers were in higher social classes than I was. I learned quickly from my attire that I was not like some of the other kids. There were implicit rules about who I was not supposed to acknowledge in the hallways, or sit at the cafeteria tables with. Placed into this new setting, I struggled to find my peer group. My clothing was not fashionable and in attempt to fit-in, I began changing the way I dressed as quickly as I could afford to. Mead believed that “social experience is the exchange of symbols” (Macionis 107). With my home school peers, symbols were straightforward and parents were role models. Conversely, …show more content…

the new judgments I learned in public school. According to Mead’s theory of “self” my personality developed as a result of being socialized in two environments. The shaping of the “self” just begins to scratch the surface of Meads theory which continues through learned socialization such as imitation, play, games and acquisition of generalized other. In my experiences with socialization I learned to adapt and grow from a variety of situations and challenging circumstances, in the end learning that no matter how others view me what matters is that I know I can overcome situations of adversity. I have the past to prove it. The late Maya Angelou said “If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your

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