Personal Narrative: My Sexual Orientation

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I identify myself someone who likes to help others, loving, a strong personality, I don’t really like to talk about my personal life but this time I have the opportunity to do it. My sexual orientation is something that I always kept private, but now, I considered myself lesbian I don’t really care what people can say about me. My sexual orientation was not acceptable in my family or my religion. I came out when I was sixteen, this was so devastating for my mother, it was embarrassing, my mother learned how to keep this on the side, and she loved me for who I am a person that never left her, yes I am her daughter but I’m her friend as well. Now she respects my personal life. Even though my sexual orientation was painful for my mother and my siblings, they love me and support me in anyway. As a kid, I was like a tom boy I guess I like sports, firearms, cars, everything that was not girly. I never cut my hair …show more content…

Now that I’m twenty five I understand that everything that happened in my life was only lessons I had to have, to learn and become stronger. I’m a private person, I don’t like to tell my personal life because people don’t really care, and they only like to criticize. For example, at work I don’t really tell people who I am, I let them get to know me better, know that I am a kind person, who has integrity, manners. People that know me so well, they tell me you are beautiful to be a lesbian, my response is “I know” but I love a woman, well smart woman only. I always have something with smart woman I think is very attractive I admire them. I like to learn new things all the time and when I meet someone that can teach me new things, is satisfying for me. I’m talking to someone now who’s been motivating me to do better, who I learned from her; we liked to help each other in different ways to understand different perspectives of

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