Overcoming Identity Confusion in Adulthood

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Because of many conflicting ideas I experienced between ages 12-18, which is the time frame for the identity versus role confusion stage of Erikson’s Psychosocial Theory of development which is describe in our textbook (Boyd & Bee, 2006), I have experienced delays in life planning. Throughout my adolescence I was often in a non supportive environment with many people dictating my actions, but no role model to look up to. This left me confused and caused me to have many different jobs that I did for money, not for career experience My future goals have stemmed from becoming recently self employed, and realizing my love for accounting, and having time to make my own decisions and realizing my true interests and talents. Ever since I was a little kid of about 6 years old, I was left to myself. My parents worked very hard during the week and partied and often went to bars every night and weekend. They spent a lot of time with friends. I found it hard to trust others due to my parents not being supportive of me so young. I really had no primary person to rely on. According to the trust versus mistrust stage of Erikson’s Psychosocial Theory of development in our textbook, a caregiver must be consistently loving and must respond to the child predictably and loving, otherwise the child may develop mistrust (Boyd & Bee, 2006). This has been my experience in my life. I had very few friends in elementary, which I learned was a time to make lifelong friends. The only social life I had was at the Possum Road Church of God, which I went to from 9 to 18 years old. However, because of the mistrust in elementary school the only friends or support system I had was in church. This caused a lack of a social life all the way up through high school... ... middle of paper ... ...ssibility to do a marketing specialization with my MBA. Making plans when it comes to my future has not been an easy task, because of what I have experienced in my life. However, I feel that the time I’ve spent being self-employed and away from my parents has really helped me. I feel like now that I know what areas I want to be in career wise, I can now plan to have a successful future. I believe that I have overcame the experiences I faced with identity, and will going to Ashford will be able to continue to face them. This will give me the chance to lead a successful life. Works Cited Bae, Y. (1999). Human development: Theories and learning futures. Futurics, 23(3/4), 12-33. Retrieved April 23, 2010, from Research Library. (Document ID: 45713792). Boyd, D. & Bee. H. (2006). Adult Development (Ashford University Custom Edition). Boston: Pearson Education.

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