Only Daughter Sandra Cisneros Summary

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Being a dad’s only daughter is by far one of the greatest things in this world I believe. In Sandra Cisneros essay “Only Daughter”, she tends to believe that living life, as the only daughter in her family may not be one of the greatest situations. Throughout her essay she describes how she feels in great depth from her personal point of view. As the only daughter in the family out of six brothers, Sandra knew she needed some motivation in her life. Being the only daughter in a family can have many affects on a person, including making them spend time alone, having high expectations, and holding a specific destiny in life. No one will ever understand what it is like to be an only daughter unless they are one, like me. According to the essay …show more content…

I can say that I am lucky for having parents that have worked two jobs in college, by making a living to support me today. In college my parents pay for all of my expenses, which I am very grateful for. Sandra did not come from a wealthy family, and therefore her father wanted her not to follow his footsteps in life. In “Only Daughter” by Sandra Cisneros, her father had a much different lifestyle; she states in her essay, “Being an only daughter for my father meant my destiny would lead me to be someone’s wife” (366). Sandra thought that her father’s idea was overall a good idea in her eyes. She felt as if she could do whatever she had wanted as long as she was successful in the end. Although, my father would never say to me that college is the time for me to find my husband, he would tell me that college is the time to figure out what you want to do for the rest of your life. Many fathers have a specific destiny in life they want their daughter to fulfill in a specific amount of time. I believe that my father’s destiny for me is to find a degree that makes me happy, and to have a goal in life rather than to just live in the moment. I believe this has to do with how a father grew up as a child, which reflects on the way a parent would raise their

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