No Way My Boys Are Going To Be Like That Summary

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Heteronormativity is a social concept that regards heterosexuality, as well as the feminine and masculine gender roles, as the norm, which implicitly suggests that everyone outside of them could be considered abnormal. In her essay “No Way My Boys Are Going to Be Like That”, Emily W. Kane observes how many parents feel as if they have a “responsibility for the accomplishment of masculinity as linked to heterosexuality” (96), which is often associated to how their sons must fit into acceptable gender boundaries. Parents may act to suppress their children’s behaviors when these boundaries are crossed in a distinctive manner, such as when boys insist on wanting Barbie dolls or polishing their nails, and attempt to make their sons successfully accomplish heterosexuality. Daughters are freer to cross gender boundaries during childhood, but the connection …show more content…

The Disney princess movies, for instance, are still very popular among children, and usually depict a princess who is apparently caring, domestic and helpless, and a prince who is strong, intrepid and a rescuer, which enforce extreme concepts of femininity and masculinity during childhood. Other movies still demonstrate “traditional” couples made up of a man, who is usually the head of household and the bread-winner, as well more aggressive than the woman, who is responsible for child rearing and house chores, and tends to be exceedingly feminine. Although this depiction has changed over time, it is still very present in society nowadays. Also, it is quite difficult to find films with a bigger gender fluidity, or with a homosexual couple as the main characters. When that happens, it is immediately categorized as “LGBTQ”, because it apparently needs to be segregated from the rest. This all contributes to making children unconsciously adhere to the idea of heteronormativity, which is then carried throughout their

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