Nature Vs Nurture Personality Development

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The discussion of nature vs. nurture is something that can be applied to almost anything related to humans and their behaviors. When looking at personality, this process could not be more prominent since there is plenty of research to show that personality can be something an individual is essentially born with, as well as a combination of the social environment they were exposed to throughout their lifetime. According to the textbook, one of the greatest ways to show how personality is developed is to analyze the behavior of children, especially when it comes to their response to fear (Cervone & Pervin, 2013). The reason why this proves to be such an important factor in determining personality is because at such a young age, a child’s reaction …show more content…

Ever since I was young I have always been fairly shy, I am not one to start up conversations with people I do not know, and I tend to stick to a smaller group of friends as opposed to larger ones. As I have grown in college, I have seen myself becoming more outgoing, mostly due to the group of friends I currently associate with, but I am also still very much an independent and somewhat closed off person. My parents are both the same way; although they are outgoing when they need to be (meetings, work, etc.) they are both very much similar in the fact that they often keep to themselves, and prefer nights in together than going out with friends. Because I feel that my personality is so similar to my parents, it is easier for me to say that my personality may be more biological, though at times I do see where the environment I am in can have an effect on how I behave and engage with others around me. However, to the contrary of that, my little sister and I could not be more opposite when it comes to our personalities. She is very outgoing, has lots of friends, and always has to be doing something. Even though I can see a few traits she has received from my parents, I would argue that she is the way she is more because of the nature aspect of everything. Growing up as the younger sibling, she always felt like she had to prove herself, and make sure they my parents were also focusing on the things she was doing in her life. Because of this, she is much more attention seeking than I am, and she likes to push the boundaries. When she gets reactions from my parents or other people, she knows that they are seeing what she is doing, and that makes her feel important even if the reactions are negative. So that’s why this nature vs. nurture topic is so relevant to my life, because I have been able to see and

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