My Experiences with Unethical Behavior

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Much of our lives we are faced with situations where we come across the opportunity to make ethical and unethical decisions or opinions. We come across difficult people who live their lives unethically. Do we allow them to influence us? Do we become transparent and lose ourselves when it seems as though everyone is doing something that is morally wrong? I for one, do not give in to this peer pressure. My first experience with unethical behavior was when I began learning how to write while I was in kindergarten. When I went to kindergarten, I attended a Catholic school in Waynesboro. All of my classes were taught by nuns, and strict nuns at that. If a child was even suspected to have done something wrong, they were immediately sent to the principal’s office. There was nothing that the child could say or do that would convince the teacher otherwise. This was their system of punishment. Often, a child would be punished by losing colored cards on a chart at the front of the classroom. Whoever made the chart must have put a lot of care and thought into its purpose. It was so grand that it was rather over-the-top. The first card was green, the second yellow and the third red. By the time the third card was pulled, the entire class had to suffer the consequences of whoever had their cards pulled. As a result, this usually put a strain on the friendships of many kids. Looking back, I don’t see this an an appropriate or effective form of punishment, especially after what resulted once I began learning how to write. When I was taught to write, to the horror of my kindergarten teacher, my first instinct was to use my left hand. I had no comprehension of why she reacted so badly when I picked up my pencil with my left hand. She immedi... ... middle of paper ... ...st time I ever watched him cry. He begged me to forgive him and to let us work things out. Despite my pride, I agreed to give him a second chance. Even though I was able to forgive him just a few months after that night, Joe has spent years trying to make it up to me. To this day, he still has not forgiven himself for the pain he put me through. Joe made a mistake, and although it was unethical, he has been the best boyfriend I could ever ask for since that event. People often find themselves making mistakes whether they are intentional or unintentional. I have long since forgiven the nuns at my old school for their mistreatment and I have put my experience at the stake house restaurant in my past. We must not hold grudges against unethical people and situations or we may find ourselves subject to being unethical. Of all things, I strive to never be a hypocrite.

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