Mother-Daughter Relationships In Hosseini's A Thousand Splendid Suns

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Hosseini intertwines both women’s stories, by sharing their relationships with their mothers, the mother-daughter relationship between them, and the mother-daughter relationship each has with Laila’s daughter, Aziza. Hosseini also shows his knowledge of life in Afghanistan at the time; Mariam and Laila’s struggle to survive amidst difficult circumstances, and the reign of the Taliban, is thoughtfully worded. A “typical” mother-daughter relationships is normally not very typical. There are numerous factors that play a role in how their relationship is how it is believed it should. The biggest factor in “A Thousand Splendid Suns” is the setting of Afghanistan and the different cultural beleifs that Afghanistan has. Laila and her Mother's Relationship

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