Male And Women In Things Fall Apart By Chinua Achebe

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Things Fall Apart The author Chinua Achebe, in the novel, “Things Fall Apart,” shares the extreme diversity between the female and male characters residing in Umofia. Okonkwo, the male leader of the tribe, carries qualities such as power and manliness, as all men are expected to. As for the females they are commonly referred as being weaker for child bearing and more responsible because they are expected to cook, clean, and take care of their children. Although the traits of the Igbo culture vary in the determination of the sexes, both genders share both positive and negative aspects of their community. For many reasons outside of the biological differences between male and females they are treated differently in Igbo cultures. Women of Igbo …show more content…

By nature, Achebe is talking about how Okonkwo returns to his mother 's clan after being exiled from his village. Since the female is considered the weaker sex for child bearing they also share a special bond with their children that men do not, “it’s true that a child belongs to its father. But when a father beats his child, it seeks sympathy in its mother’s hut. A man belongs to his fatherland when things are good and life is sweet. But when there is sorrow and bitterness he finds refuge in his motherland. Your mother is there to protect you. She is buried there. And that is why we say that mother is supreme (134).” Achebe uses this example to prove that in Umofia women are not respected the way they should be. In Mbanta where Okonkwo travels after he is exiled things are different for him because women are viewed in a positive perspective, as in Umofia women are viewed as weak and negative in the society. But when Okonkwo goes to his motherland, it’s Achebe’s way of saying that because his mother is buried there, she is protecting Okonkwo and that is why he says that, “mother is supreme”. However, mother’s were not the only women to hold a positive impact on a man. Ezinma, Okonkwo’s daughter got along with him so well he often wishes she was a male so he could be closer to her and she could make him proud. Unlike Okonkwo’s other children, Ezinma, one of the Igbo females …show more content…

Even if a man had a title for himself if he did not have control of his wife and children, he was not considered a true man, “No matter how prosperous a man was, if he was unable to rule this women and his children, he was not really a man(53)”. Man of Igbo are held a high amount of power, which is why Okonkwo’s nine children and three wives were often terrified of his anger. Okonkwo struggles with his prominent attitude that men are more important than women because he fears to not be successful and resemble his father, Unoka, whom he refers to as a “woman”. Unoka, before his death was lazy, irresponsible, and weak, as he was known for owning money to others. Achebe uses Unoka, as an example that is a was not manly or did not earn himself a worthy title, that he is not looked at as a real man. Umofia was strict about the understanding that all men must be strong, even when Okonkwo wanted to care for others in a compassionate way he could not because they would mistake that for weakness. For example, when Okonkwo wanted to save Ikemefuna from death, Achebe states, he could not do that because he is too prideful and being strong for men in Umofia, is not just a characteristic but a lifestyle. Okonkwo has no problem letting go of his son Nwoye because he chose the catholic religion over what his father believed in. For a

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