I can understand taking time or needing more incentive before wanting to talk but 3 weeks is a bit much for someone you want to work on having a friendship with don’t you think?
My thoughts have changed since the last time we spoke and I just want to let you know where I’m at with our situation right now…
I don 't want you to think that I don 't want to be your friend because if we can 't be together, we can 't be friends. I just don 't think it 's a good idea. I can 't move on with another guy if your’e still somewhat apart of my life, thinking I 'll have you to myself one day. No you’re not stopping me from dating others but if it become’s physical I know I don’t want another guy touching me the way you do, I would only want you. Love
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I preferred if we took our time to get it right. I’m still working on bettering myself so I can provide for my family and my future. So, no I wasn’t waiting on you, I’m living my own life and pursing my own dreams and I know you are too. I don’t have a personal time limit on a relationship commitment and would never try to force that out someone. I’m still young, still piecing things together in my life and my brain doesn’t work like that. I believe in if its meant to be it will be. I guess I have a live and let live mentally, I think we both share the same detachment traits so we tend to take breaks from each other because our instinct’s tell us too, but ignoring me does change my feelings toward you. It makes me feel as if I’m bother you and its too easy to tell me you need time to think things out. I’m very understanding so I don’t get why after I told you that bothers me you continue to do it especially after you told me you would treat me better. I’m not saying I didn’t want you because I did want you but I can’t say I was 100% ready and I didn’t think you were either because it never came up before and we never discuss if/what we wanted from this. Your actions never showed me you were interested in me that way so I never knew, you treat me like you don’t care and I sit here and act like I don’t, that’s not healthy. If I was looking for anything out of this it would’ve been your trust and …show more content…
I’m a good person and don’t need to prove that to anyone that does not know me or spend a lifetime proving it. I believed in compromising for a relationship but not settling into a relationship because fear of not finding someone else, loneliness or both and I never felt like I was settling when I was with you. I just felt like me and you fit without trying and nobody could tell me differently. You were the one that wouldn’t go away, not in the physical sense lol but meaning out of my mind, like I couldn’t stop thinking about you. I always thought if you can 't stop thinking about you I shouldn’t give up on you but at some point you have to realize when the effort is’nt mutual you must let go. I know now (cause it shows) you don’t feel the same and I deserve someone who loves me as much as I love
In loving you, I am slowly learning to love myself, something that has never happened before. I’m always so happy around you, my heart doesn’t feel heavy in your presence. My walls are completely down for you, being so vulnerable is a scary thought, though I know I can fully trust you to be there for me. In the past, I have given pieces of myself to people who did not deserve them, my heart to people who used me, looking for love in shallow places. From the moment I met you, I knew you were different. I could tell that you were a soft and sweet boy that wasn’t only with me for what I could do for you. You showed me that love can be pure and untainted with good intentions. I know I’m not the best girl in the world, but I’m always trying to be the best girl for you, doing my best to make you happy in the small things. My bed has never felt empty with just me in it before, though now when I sleep alone, it feels as though you should be next to me. I crave your warmth. There is no better way to wake up, than to wake up to your sleeping face, the handsome lines and curves of your skin that create the
Relationships, to me, are very important to have in your life. Some people may think of one of the most common relationships, which would be romantic. However, when I think of relationships, I personally think of the people around you. Anyone in your life has a relationship with you. These relationships aren’t always good, but they aren’t always bad either. In my life, the relationships I have are shared with family, friends, teachers, etc. However, I am surrounded everyday with “adult” relationships, team relationships, and more.
Since that extraordinary day basketball practice, we’ve been repeating the same process of chilling together while waiting in the snow just enjoying each other’s company before we head home. I can feel that both of us are slowly getting more comfortable with each other and closer to each other in every way conceivable. As we reach the end of winter and basketball season, the after-practice snowfall nights seem to lessen and then cease. However, that doesn’t stop her from wanting to talk to me. To be cliché, the intense, fiery romantic passion caused the winter to die and bring life into our spring fling. At least that is what I
Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for
We learn to grow to live and let go but will she do it. She is a beautiful flower growing up absorbing the energy of the world. Meeting that one is a moment she wouldn't ever forget. Their eyes meet in place of one another falling into the universe, time just stops. May this be the beginning of her future.
Erikson saw the development of inatimate relationships as the crucial task of young adulthood. The need to form strong, stable, close, caring relationship is a powerful motivate of human behaviour. An important elemen of intimacy is self-disclosure, ‘revealing important information about oneself to another’ (Collins & Miller, 1994, p 457). People become intimate and remain intimate through shared disclosures, responsiveness to one another’s need and mutual acceptance and respect (Harvey & Omarzu,1997, Reis & Patrick, 1996).
His face showed pure delight when I uttered the words, his eyes lit up and he flashed me one of those incredible smiles complete with dimples that he used to always give me in the past. But although his face said yes, his mouth said no. He made a dozen excuses that conflicted with each other ranging from not wanting to date in college to having another girlfriend. But the one excuse that sounded genuine was “You don’t want me, I’m too complicated”.
For her privacy, I'll refer to her as Rin. I was happy for the first few months, but the relationship became suffocating later on. Rin wanted my undivided attention at all times of the day. In addition, Rin had severe anxiety. My love for Rin slowly died and obligation took its place. I felt obliged to stay with her. It's nauseating that I felt this way, but what else could I do? I thought that I had to stay with Rin to keep her safe from herself. As a result, I stayed with her, not as a lover, but a caretaker. One evening with friends, Rin demanded we leave, for Rin didn't like that she had to share me. I couldn't deal with her distancing me from friends anymore. I called Rin and cut all ties between us and our mutual friends. I gave her neither chance for dialogue nor reprisal, just like Paul Neruda. In hindsight, I didn't love her. Because I am a loser who has no chance in love, I was more in love with the idea of a girlfriend. As a result, I didn't love Rin, I loved my girlfriend. If I had truly had feelings for Rin, I would've resolved my problems through dialogue, not by running away like a
I was with my family and our car was crushed like an accordion. While at hospital I sent a text and let her know what had happen. I didn’t get reply back for like hour and half. Which was alright but she sent a simple ‘oh’. That really made me upset. After being cleared to leave the hospital. I had a long talk with a close friend and how I should take care of this in my relationship. The advice to me was to step away and let her be. So I took the advice and let her go. I knew this wasn’t going to sit right for me but inside I want her to be
Thank you. It's just that you don't seem to think you need to put any work into this relationship. You think that I'll do everything and we'll be fine.
Love, that single feeling which generates the funny sensations in people's stomach, giving them the warm pleasures in their body, causing them to feel joy, and to believe every aspect in their life is right. It causes them to receive an exhilarating, appealing feeling that makes them want to rejoice. Love can be a speeding of their heart, but it can also be nerve-racking. It makes their hearts begin to rapidly pump, making a rapid beat— “ba-boom, ba-boom, ba-boom”. Attempting to describe love is a rigorous task, but it is possible. However, the easiest detail to describe and understand about love is not so much the feeling of it, but the concept of what it is about. Many people may obtain different views and definitions regarding love, but
There are many positive things and negative things about the movie and the story. In the movie
I disagree and would argue that being in love and loving someone has two very different meanings. The word love is used too loosely. Loving someone and being in love with someone are two very different things. Although I am not a love master, being only 19 years old and in two serious relationships in my life, I have come to realize being in love is something special. I believe when you are in love it’s not a choice, that person is picked for you. You are addicted to them, you want all your friends and family to love them as much as you do, you are there when they succeed and there when they fail, you miss them every minute you are apart and you unconditionally love them, even when times get hard.
"Isn't it funny how you can think you're completely over someone, but if you drive past his house, stumble upon a meaningful song you both shared, or even catch a glance of him on the street, just in an instant, it can change all that, and you start to remember the pain. And that hollow space is feeling more and more like the Grand Canyon with every second that goes by. But you bury these feelings deep down, so deep that you're sure no one will be able to tell. To the outside world, you smile and act like nothing is wrong or will ever be. Everything's just perfect. And you go along your merry way, all the while home realizing how much you do miss him, how much you still love him... and it sticks with you for days, weeks, maybe months, until fate decides to hand you another one of these unexpected moments. And then you finally understand the worst feeling in the world is when the person you love the most is standing right next to you, yet you can never have them."
“Love is universally accepted by many people and the concept of love within the English language refers to a variety of different approaches, states and attitudes, ranging from pleasure to interpersonal attraction.” (Kendrick 123) My characterization of love encourages the intimate emotion I partake for my family. The distinct connection that we fashioned and the invaluable moments that we consolidated. In the perceptive of a mother, my children are my supremacy and the greatest blessing of my lifecycle. They’re my inspiration and motivation to continue progressing and becoming the best at what I do. With that in mind, Love relics your outlooks and approaches the linkage they become associated with. Consequently, this condition can fluctuate over a period of a specific time. Additionally, depending on your situation, your perspective on love can be an altering affect, creating a stable or inconsistent assessment. Furthermore, causing your love to intensify, decline, or even cease. Love in its essence, stands justly powerful and the beauty of it advances,