Loneliness Essay

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Mother Theresa once said “The greatest disease [..] today is not TB or leprosy; it is being unwanted, unloved, and uncared for.” Different from being physically alone, loneliness is related to the perception, whether it’s real or not, of being rejected from others and to the dissatisfaction with the current social relationships. Actually, loneliness has become a growing epidemic that is slowly suffocating our modern-day society. Humans are social animals which have needs for inclusion in group life and for close relationships. Feeling lonely can motivate people to start connecting with others, but it can also trigger a viscous cycle of behaviours that aggravate their situation. We are slowly losing the genuine feelings of companionship, of …show more content…

This problem has been severely underrated. It’s becoming more dangerous. Solitude is not just a short term emotion, it can be long term and agonizing, leading to drastic health problems. It has been proven that people have greater chance of dying due to being alone. Loneliness degrades human health more than smoking, or obesity can. It is a psychological issue that strikes the mind at first, thus emotions, moving on to the next target which is the physical body. When someone is very lonesome he becomes subjected to anxiety, depression, and it might even lead to substance abuse. Loneliness is one of the major reasons for suicide. When a person decides to end his life it is because he feels like his existence doesn’t matter, or does not affect the people around him. It is because of the absence of emotional connection with others. Some people tend to …show more content…

From an evolutionary viewpoint, loneliness corresponds to a signal, that one needs to act and repair the weaknesses it is causing. Although feeling lonely can push us to reconnect or forge our interaction with others, it can, in most cases, increase the risk for rejection and lead us through a viscious cycle of maladaptive perceptions and behaviours. However, research confirms our deepest intuition: Human connection lies at the heart of human well-being. It’s up to all of us to maintain ties where they’re fading, and create new ones where they’re absent. Our job today is to repair connections and strengthen social ties rather than driving ourselves apart from eachother. By doing that we can ensure the survival of our genes as well as our physical/emotional health and wellbeing. MOTHER THERESA continues by saying that « We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness, despair, and hopelessness is love. There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of bread but there are many more dying for a little love. » All the world needs is a little love, a little interaction and communication between its citizens, to fight this feeling of aloneness, to let our societies unite again, live

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