Life Of Women In The Victorian Era Vs. Women Today

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As time as passed, life for women has changed drastically in their social and personal life. As researching about women and their lives in the Victorian era vs. Women today, I was able to get a grasp on how much has changed. From their simple everyday lives of what they wear and their hobbies, to their job duties and family life; so much as changed that show how powerful women were and still are today. Throughout my paper, I decided to focus mainly on the lives of women in the Victorian era and today including; dressing, living, marriage.
Before starting my actual research, I drew back on my own knowledge of the Victorian era and was only really familiar with the way the Victorian women dressed. What automatically …show more content…

However, there are plenty of similarities between the two different eras. Still today, women are usually given titles because of the way they may dress. If a woman dresses in comfortable clothing, people may look down upon them as lazy, whereas if a woman is dressed in tight shorts and a tank top, many may view her as what many call, a ‘whore’. In addition, just as sex seemed to be a target in the Victorian Era, many still today depict woman as sex objects. From the many TV beer commercials for example, always having the woman dress in a certain way and talking with a sensual tone to your everyday billboard advertisements of modeling swimsuits or cars. It seems that giving woman a ‘title’ and having them be a symbol of sex has not become uncommon. And in the Victorian era, being a wife, mother or both, they all pertain to a caretaker and had certain expectations that needed to be reached, which then introduces the next focus on these women’s lives; everyday living …show more content…

In the Victorian Era a woman who was married showed a symbol of maturity in her and many respected her because of it. The beginning of a relationship however is surely different than today. While researching, I noticed that in this era, relationships seemed to be the ‘old fashion’ type of romance. Just as in today’s society, a relationship starts in 3 stages if a courtship (Victorian Era Courtship Rules and Marriages). Starting off as a mutual friendship and going on dates is the first stage. In the Victorian Era, in this stage, there would be no physical contact; such as kissing, hand holding or other sexual contact. Today’s society shares some similarities when two people are just friends. On the other hand, the second stage of courtship is the engagement aspect, and the two different eras surely show this stage having very drastic differences. The Victorian era was very also very strict on physical contact just like in the first stage. Although this stage allowed the couple to have some sort of physical contact such as, hand holding, it is required that the couple wait till after marriage that they are able to have sex (Victorian Era Courtship Rules and Marriages). This is one of the major differences in each era. In today’s society, it is barely known that a couple wait till marriage to sleep together. So while today’s era has improved very positively since the Victorian era, I believe this

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