Individualism In Raising Children

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A nation’s growth is not just dependent on the economic and natural resources, instead it lies more in its children. It is they who will be the creators and shapers of a nation’s tomorrow. Compared to other countries, American society recognizes the future contributions of children as a private responsibility rather than public responsibility. The ethos of individualism is deeply embedded in our culture in that raising children’s cost and care is solely the private problem of the individual family. It typically affects mothers more. This makes raising children more difficult. In fact children should be considered a public responsibility. In this essay, the main argument is that America promotes the principle of individualism in raising children …show more content…

Especially mothers in America are at an economic disadvantage. With raising children as private responsibility and no net support from the society, the individuals will eventually end up in poverty. There are many countries that have adjust to the massive growth of women in the workforce over the past century by creating public policies to help accommodate work and family obligations. This paper will incorporate scholarly sources from Crittenden, Hays, Schulte, Coontz, Folbre, Stone and Lovejoy to back up the argument.
Individualism is deeply embedded in the American society but America was once dependence on others during the Colonial period. America puts high value of self-reliant in families. Much of the American economy has been built on mutual aid. Throughout history, dependence has never disappeared. Having the help from the government or others can give to those that are poor and underprivileged people a chance to survive periods of …show more content…

The article “Marriage, Poverty and Public Policy” written by Stephanie Coontz and Nancy Folbre, discusses the causes and effects of child poverty. “In Canada and France, single mothers and children in general are far less likely to live in poverty. Sweden and Denmark, which have higher rates of out of wedlock births, have much lower rates of child poverty and hunger than does the United States” (2010:191). Coontz also discusses about the primary causes of poverty are unemployment, poor education, and lack of affordable child care. This shows that two-parent families are not guaranteed to not be in economic stresses, and single parents do not inevitably lead to poverty. Also two parent families may be in poverty due to many reasons like the rising cost of raising children, childcare, being penalized for taking time away from job responsibilities to provide family care, lack of education, and less income assistance. Public policies toward marriage should be improved; eliminating the marriage penalty on taxes or benefit reductions on low-income couples and designing better public

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