[Q6] There is no pure state within the human condition; happiness is a state of mind, a mentality. Any type of relationship can lead to happiness or any other type of state. Everything depends on everything else. Achieving goals is the key to happiness, but it depends on what kind of goals. Intrinsic and extrinsic goals determine what type of happiness you’ll have. Intrinsic goals leads to inner fulfillment, on the other hand; extrinsic goals lead to pleasure and anxiety.
[Q6, Q11] Having extrinsic goals is focused on external gain and rewards and looks forward for wealth, fame, praise, status and personal image. The more people that achieve extrinsic goals are tools to be used by someone else’s gain and do not own control of own self to make a decisions. The individual is stuck on a tread mill running forever seeking please to fill the void, that missing emotional hole. This void is filled by material and objects to reach “happiness” but on the contrary, it leads to paraphernalia of suffering because anything that is used to fill the void doesn’t last and an individual is stuck with the constant seeking of filling the void with objects that doesn’t have any significant. The individual in the thread mill misses out on all the things that would be important to them and leads to anxiety because of the constant seeking of new materials and objects that satisfy you temporarily. Examples of extrinsic goals would be going to college to get a degree, getting good grades so your parents will recompense with a treat, and learning to cook so later you will earn money as a chef. All of the examples are focused on doing a something to get something in return.
[Q6] On the other hand, having intrinsic goals in our life will nature our sense...
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...shows a lot of trust and faith on the other person. The speaker loves this person so much that he would give away this valuable cloth filled with all his dreams and hopes. He will give everything to have a good and strong relationship with the women. But sadly he is poor and cannot afford the cloth. All he has is love and his dream of this relationship. He gives those dreams to the women because he loves her so much and trusts her with his future. The speaker holds his dreams and whatever happens to those dreams in her hands. You do not need money to have love, there is no need for the cloth, all that matters is true love where both are willing to give each other everything to have a good relationship. He knows that his love, will and his dream to having a relationship is all that matters to have a good relationship and having a good relationship leads to happiness.
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aim and end of human existence. We create our own happiness. Happiness is not something really made,
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You know when you’re watching a movie and you really connect with it, not just with the characters but you really just get the film? Ever wonder what it is that made you fall in love with a film even if the dialogue or cinematography isn’t everything you hoped for? It’s the sound design! Not to discredit any part of the film, The Pursuit of Happyness, because it is a beautiful film, but the sound design is what truly makes this film so great. It fills all the voids that are sometimes experienced in films. It does this by capitalizing on what the untrained ear calls noise. Another way the sound designers of this film really grab the attention of the audience is by creating a fluid way to make you listen to the sounds simultaneously with the images on the screen. In addition, the realistic sounds in conjunction with synthetic sounds complete the film by providing seamless cuts between scenes. The amalgamations of these three aspects are what make the sound design of The Pursuit of Happyness a truly vital part of the film.
Happiness is a feeling that humans naturally desire. Without it, one feels incomplete. In this generation, happiness has taken on a definition by how we are presented to one another. It is measured by how much money we have, how famous we are, or the things we possess. When in reality, none of these things guarantee a happy life. Happiness is something that cannot be bought with money, but rather, it must be found, earned, sought after. Each and every one of us has our own list of things that we consider to make us happy. However, happiness shines brightest through the relationships we create, and the goals we make for ourselves to strive after. Along with these two essential sources, we then can mix and match those things in life that we enjoy to create our own unique formula for happiness.
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