Father Son Relationships In The Kite Runner By Khaled Hosseini

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Father and Son
The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini is a very in-depth book with so many different ideas to analyze. Father-Son relationships are such powerful matters in the Kite Runner to read about. They are a fundamental part of the book and hold so much meaning. Relationships like Baba and Amir are very different than Hassan and Sohrab’s. Rahim Khan and Baba severely contrast each other when put in an relationship with Amir. Parent-Child relationships are fragile and need to be treated carefully and taken care of well to build a strong bond.
One of the most notable and striking relationships in the Kite Runner is Baba and Amir. Amir is constantly pressing Baba for the love and attention he wants, and needs as a child. Baba has many issues as a parent. He didn’t pay much attention to Amir -and if he did- it was mostly criticism to how Amir lives. …show more content…

Hassan listens to Sohrab,spends time with him, and understands him. He acknowledges Sohrab's wants and needs as a kid. In Chapter 16, it says all of the things Hassan did with Sohrab, like teaching hi to read and write so he wouldn’t grow up illiterate like his father. He taught him how to use the slingshot, took him to the zoo, the movies and taught him kite running. “On those days when the rocket fire eased up a bit and the gunfighting was light, Hassan would take Sohrab to the zoo to see Marjan the lion, or to the cinema. Hassan taught him how to shoot the slingshot, and, later, by the time he was eight, Sohrab had become deadly with that thing: He could stand on the terrace and hit a pinecone propped on a pail halfway across the yard. Hassan taught him to read and write. his son was not going to grow up illiterate like he had.” (212.) Sohrab loves Hassan and enjoys the time he spends with him, unlike how in Amir’s relationship with Baba he constantly strives to be the best not for himself but solely for Baba’s love and

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