Explore Jane Austen’s attitude to marriage in Pride and Prejudice

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Explore Jane Austen’s attitude to marriage in Pride and Prejudice

Looking at the social, historical and cultural context

In the 19th century when Austen wrote ‘Pride and Prejudice’, the way

in which marriage was viewed was very different. It would have been

expected of a young woman to find a ‘suitable’ partner for marriage

before they were thirty, as after this they could be seen as an

embarrassment to their family. By suitable, it does not mean in the

way in which marriage is viewed today. Today marriage is seen as an

expression of deep love and respect for another person. In Austen’s

time, a ‘good’ marriage was seen to be one where wealth and social

status of the man and woman were socially suitable. There was very

little, if nothing at all based on a good love match. This can be seen

in Austen’s opening statement, ‘it is a truth universally

acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must

be in want of a wife.’ Austen’s use of irony immediately indicates

that she does not agree with this popular view of her time. Austen’s

views are depicted throughout the book through the thoughts of

characters, especially through the main character, Elizabeth Bennet.

They seem to share the same view that social suitability is not enough

for marriage, but it should be based on love and understanding. For

Austen to hold this opinion in the time that she lived shows she was

ahead of her time, as her opinion is the common view among today’s

modern society.

Austen illustrates two main examples of the ‘ideal state’ of marriage.

These can be seen through the relationships and eventual engagements

of Bingley and Jane, along with Elizabeth and Darcy. The way, in which

Austen portrays these two relati...

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...and compatibility and the

feelings of the two people involved, were not high on the priority

list for a good, successful marriage. However Austen thought this

should be the other way around, as she believed that love and

compatibility are one of the most important aspects of a good marriage

and that money and social status should only play a part in marriage,

not decide it. This can be seen where she shows her personal feelings

towards each different type of marriage shown. In the marriages she

sees as being ‘good’ marriages, we can assume that they will be happy

when the marriage has been based on a balance of their personalities

and their love. Throughout each she continually stresses the

importance of love, equality and compatibility in a marriage. The

reader is shown the alternatives to this, in both the positive and

negative consequences of marriage.

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