Empathy In The Outsiders

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Neil Barringham once said, “The grass is not greener on the other side, it is green where you water it”. The film The Outsiders really resonates with this quote. It tells a story of two groups of ignorant teenagers who allow their socioeconomic differences impede their relationship. Little do they know, they share the same problems and live in the same world. Like the quote says, the grass is green where one waters it but they do, in fact, share the same yard. One of the most prominent themes in The Outsiders is empathy. What the characters experience on screen is a very common problem today. Adolescents struggle to empathize with others. Teenagers that watch this film will find that they have been in similar situations or have felt the same …show more content…

The two groups in the movie are called the Greasers and the Socs (short for socials). An intense feud exists between them and the hostility stems from class distinctions. The Soc are wealthy and popular while the Greasers are poor with no social standing. They think they live in different worlds and believe they are superior to each other in one way or another. Ponyboy Curtis, the main character, has a preconceived idea of what it means to be a Soc. His inability to empathize really shows when he talks about the Socs problems. “I really couldn't see what Socs would have to sweat about—good grades, good cars, good girls, madras and Mustangs and Corvairs—Man, I thought, if I had worries like that I'd consider myself lucky.” Ponyboy does not stop to think about non-materialistic problems the Soc could possibly …show more content…

A character named Sherri, who is a Soc and also friends with Ponyboy states “You greasers have a different set of values. You're more emotional. We're sophisticated - cool to the point of not feeling anything. Nothing is real with us." Sherri cannot empathize with Ponyboy because she is not familiar with intense emotions, just like the rest of the Socs. For the Soc, too much emotional investment is too much of a commitment. For the Greasers, that is all they have. They value their brotherhood more than anything. Ponyboy and Sherri open each other up to new worlds and it led to the mutual understanding and respect between the Soc and Greasers. The scene where Sherri and Ponyboy discuss the sunset really bridges the gap. Sherri says she has a great view of the sunset from the south side, and Ponyboy informs her that he can see it as well, but from the north side. The sunset symbolizes connection and unity. It is proof that the Soc and the Greasers, no matter how different they may think they are, share the same sky. Ponyboy states “Things were rough all over, but it was better that way. That way you could tell the other guy was human too.” For the first time, he refers to the Soc as “humans” which shows he has a newfound respect for them thanks to Sherri. This scene is a stepping-stone for the Greasers and the Soc and their mutual respect for each other. Ponyboy serves as a gateway for

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