Courtship Vs. Dating In 'Boy Meets Girl'

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Courtship vs. Dating As we get older and the future becomes a reality we need to become more familiar with relationship terminology. Courtship and dating may seem like the same thing, but after reading different source and talking to important people in my life I was able to come to a conclusion about the similarities and difference of courtship and dating, therefore, I was able to determine my opinion on dating vs. courtship. Courtship is a form of dating that actively involves God, the parents, and has the end goal of marriage. It takes the position that there should be no physical activity between the two people, and they should not spend extended amounts of time together unless they are with their families or friends. Joshua Harris, the author of Boy Meets Girl, describes the way that he views courtship as “...not a set of rules, but that special season in a romance where a man and women are seriously weighing the possibility of marriage...a romantic relationship that is purposefully headed towards marriage.” Although Harris lived a life of courtship, he makes it clear that …show more content…

dating. Harrison and Jena have been dating for over a year and they agreed that they prefer dating because it is more practical for the season of life that they are in. To quote harrison, he said “Courtship just isn’t practical because of the complex and complicated world that we live in.” Jena then went on to say that that everyone’s relationships is different, so dating might not be for everyone, just as courtship wasn’t for them. Both said that it does not necessarily matter whether you are dating or courting, as long as the end goal is marriage and God is at the center of the relationship. Harrison ended our conversation by saying “to successfully date or court someone you need to be spiritually supportive of each other and have intimate

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