Snapchat. Instagram. Twitter. These are social media bases that everybody has heard of. It seems like every time I check one of these platforms, someone is doing something crazy like skydiving, or something ‘fun’ like going to a concert. Me? I’m an introvert. I like staying at home, I like being alone or with a relatively small crowd, and I tend to find less enjoyment in things that social media tells me I should like. Something I did recently was buy tickets, Lollapalooza tickets.Maybe it was an impulse buy or maybe I thought it would be fun for a split second but I’m not a concert type of guy. This is what I’m talking about when I say conforming to societal values. The teen population thinks that concerts are fun, but I don’t necessarily, …show more content…
Or at least it’s not bad in moderation, but if you’re a teen in the 21st century you know that you use social media excessively. If I try hard I can avoid social media, but even if I do I feel left out on all the events that occurred while I was out of the loop that I could’ve participated in. The worst feeling is being left out. Maybe that’s what drives me to continue to intertwine my own values with society’s. But nevertheless this can be considered conformity. What is conformity? Psychologist Solomon Asch ran an experiment where a group of individuals were verbally asked some questions in a group and asked to respond one by one, the first few were told to purposefully say the wrong answer and a single individual was tested on whether or not he said his own answer or conformed and repeated the answers the others said. The results? Over 12 trials, 75% of tested individuals were reported to conform at least once. Conformity is the compliance with standards, rules, or laws. Although taken from a very old experiment (1951), a type of conformity can still be seen today by all sorts of populations. According to the Cosmopolitan, being active on social media can cause eating …show more content…
But why do I conform despite knowing I don't want to? In today’s society conformity is necessary to basically not be antisocial. If you don’t conform, you’re seen as “that weird guy” or maybe the person who never leaves home. Conformity is a basic need to live in society today. Some people are good at balancing their own values and society’s values, and some people become engulfed in their own values and have no regard for society’s or vice versa. Where do I fall in that spectrum? I think I succumb to society’s values over my own, but just a little bit. This is a constant fight between me, myself, and I, but it is also a new societal norm that everyone surprisingly
The most popular age to do so are teenagers as one can depict. If all people conformed to one another, individuality would never be heard of. An opposite way to think of this is that without conformity, the common society would not be able to work together. People tend to believe this due to the fact that without agreement, there is chaos. No one would have courage to stand up for what they believe in, what they like, and most importantly, who they are. One will usually believe that after conforming to fit others for a while, one may begin to lose themselves. All in all, conforming may seem to be the only option to people in order not drag attention to themselves in certain situations. In these situation types, you must find courage within yourself to have the ability to not overlook what you believe
Conformity can be very crucial, infact a lot of people eventually start hurting themselves or doing drugs just because they don't feel themselves anymore.Why can't society change? why can't that one kid that always follows everyone in the back can turn into the kid that just hangs with the people they really wanna hang with?We need to embrace ourselves so we can stop all this conformity from consuming us.Tupac was a nonconformist, he always did what made him happy and always told the truth.
The novel, Brave New World by Aldous Huxley first published in 1932, presents a very bleak out look of what future society will be like. The novel presents a future of where almost total conformity is a carefully guarded aspect of society. Even before one is "decanted" they are conditioned to fill a specific roll and to act a certain way.
Pursuing a personal desire and choosing to conform to societal expectations is a challenging decision to make. A person must decide if their personal desire is worth risking the shame and judgment of others or is conforming the route to take because it is easier. When pursuing a personal desire one must ask itself if it is worth the hardship to accomplish one's desire or if it is best left alone and repressed, in hopes of finding comfort in conformity. John Laroche from The Orchid Thief expresses his personal desire without a care for conformity or societal expectations. Nevertheless, Laroche never stopped being strange as he grew up with fascinations of many objects such as orchids, turtles, old mirrors and fish tanks.
In society, it's difficult to go against the norm. Individuals are compelled to act a specific way, or look a specific way in order to be accepted. For instance, teenagers may encounter pressure from their peers to partake in specific exercises that may not be moral, since they feel the need to fit in. This weight of conformity isn't just present in reality; it can be found in literature as well. The story "St. Lucy’s Home For Girls Raised by Wolves" by Karen Russell depicts that in order to conform to society, individuals abandon their selflessness and compassion and become selfish and apathetic.
Social pressures make us lose our ideals and force us to conform. We are born into a society with all these rules and social norms that we
Everybody wants to be accepted, yet society is not so forgiving. It bends you and changes you until you are like everyone else. Society depends on conformity and it forces it upon people. In Emerson's Self Reliance, he says "Society is a joint stock company, in which the members agree, for the better securing of his bread to each shareholder, to surrender the liberty and culture of the eater." People are willing to sacrifice their own hopes and freedoms just to get the bread to survive. Although the society that we are living in is different than the one the Emerson's essay, the idea of fitting in still exists today. Although society and our minds make us think a certain way, we should always trust our better judgment instead of just conforming to society.
The feeling of being accepted is a feeling that everyone wants to feel and everyone goes throughout life in order to feel accepted by others. Nobody wants to feel like they are “on the outs” in life and nobody wants to feel as if others don’t approve of them, as that can be extremely detrimental to anybody’s’ self-esteem. I learned from this assignment that in life people often conform their beliefs in order to seem consistent with social norms. As I experienced when I didn’t conform to the “acceptable” and “normal” behaviors in society, people were extremely quick to judge me and it was very easy to observe that I was viewed as “weird” and “crazy” simply because I broke what was expected of me in society. During a critical analysis of the treatment of people who are different, break social norms, or march to the beat of their own drummer I was able to discover that conformity, compliance, and obedience is almost expected in society. It is expected that our behavior, perception, and opinions conform to social norms and when someone’s behaviors or opinions don’t conform to what’s normal it makes others around them uncomfortable and causes them to view that person as an outcast or part of an outgroup simply because someone isn’t living up to society’s expectations. In order to stay “accepted” in society we believe that
As we grow up we are told to be individuals, but once we grow up we obey authority figures and change our beliefs to fit in with others. No matter what age we are we will always comply to a behavior or belief to fit in with a group different than ours or to be liked. We do not like to be judged or looked at as an outsider; this will remain the same in which ever situation we find ourselves in. Whether it be in a professional setting such as work or a social setting with friends. When thinking of conformity and obedience we mostly think of cults and prisons but it is not always the case.
The origins of the pressure to conform come from the people you surround yourself from. The individuals in my house are extremely involved in the concept of “fitting in with the crowd.” They endeavor to be accepted by their peers and regularly assure themselves they are. People also feel compressing pressure from modern society. Both genders are expected to behave a certain way and are looked down upon if they choose to innovate.
Imagine living in a world where almost everyone lived the same lifestyle. Same cars, styles, and personalities, almost everything was the same. There was a set social norm and if you were different, you might have been judged for the way you lived. You feel the need to change your lifestyle in order to fit in with the world’s “social norm”. There is a pressure from the people around you or the town/city that you live in. Now it is highly encouraged to be different amongst the rest of the people to stand out. However, before being “different”, many people felt the need to conform to society’s norm. In the books The Sun Also Rises and Babbitt, social conformity plays a huge role in their storylines. The term social conformity is a society or
Throughout my life I learned to adapt and conform to behaviors that were different form my family’s upbringing. My family initially viewed conformity as a negative thing, but were able to eventually learn to embrace parts of the American culture and have conformed to some aspects of today’s society. The desire to be
Conformity is defined as behavior in accordance with socially accepted conventions or standards. This is not a good or bad thing, this just is. It exists as a compliment to earlier humans congregating into larger groups, using agriculture and domestication to create sustenance. Also, conformity is essential for life. We need people to share the same ideas, ideologies and a way of thinking in order to work efficiently and effectively. There many examples that exist like, at work or in your house and even within yourself. Sigmund Freud has explained the phenomena of group psychology in a piece titled, Group Psychology and the Analysis of the Ego. Using Freud’s theory of conformity I will explain the self, what we call “me”,and its different constituents using The Principles of Psychology by
Elliot Aronson (2012) provides a definition of conformity, two social psychological processes that underlie a conformity and cited examples of reasons why people conform in the book, The Social Animal. Aronson (2012) defines a conformity as “a change in a person’s behavior or opinion as a result of real or imagined pressure from a person or group of people” (p.19). In accordance with Aronson’s (2012) definition of conformity, people do conform owing to the social influence, which are two main social psychological processes: belonging and getting information.
To begin with, social media has been proven to be a dangerous addiction due to the many negative side effects like: sleep deprivation, and self-esteem problems. Most of the adult American population is connected to some sort of social media site, and they have joined the banned wagon of people whom check their social media accounts at least five times a day. Using social media to often can be time consuming and essentially causes sleep deprivation because the user stays up late on social media. Since social media has grown in popularity many have began to believe that social media is a life necessity. It is viewed by many as a daily necessity like brushing our teeth, or yet as important as eating. People whom are constantly on social media have been linked to develop self-esteem problems because they are so consumed on pretending and portraying this image of a person they are not. Social media has became such an addiction that many people wake up and the first thing they do is...