Code Switching In Relationships

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Code switching is not a widely well-known term to describe to the changes between one’s behavior resulting because of the different people and settings they involve themselves with. My boyfriend and I have a very close relationship, we basically know everything there is to know about a person, but I didn’t that the way he would change his dialect, mannerisms, or just the way he would be with another person was him code switching. Michael has a job with an intense professional atmosphere, and him and I’s relationship is very open and loving. On the other hand his relationship with his friend George is very all over the place, free and carefree.

Even though a language is spoken that passes as English, syntax, voice, composure, and semantics …show more content…

I knew that would help us get alone time! Yes we both smoke. as we walk outside, he goes for my hand, and says “I love you.” I reply, “I love you too baby, I just wish you would interact with me a little more even while your buddies are around.” Michael replies, “I know babe, I will, you’ve just got to understand we have a different relationship than me and you.” Not completely understanding why a difference in relationships will make you change how you interact with them, I reply, “I completely understand that, having a different relationship with someone doesn’t mean you have to completely ignore me.” Michael then stated, “Okay baby. I understand and will try to keep you more involved.” It is wonders what a simple conversation can do. We head back through the maze of tables, to find George drinking away. George yells from halfway across the bar, Yo dude, what took so long?” Michael looking around as if he was embarrassed, and as we get closer to the table he responds “I had to talk with my girl and we smoked a cigarette.” I butt in once again “Sorry George, smoke break!” Michael turns to me, “Hey baby, want to go request a song.” Yes he said the word request, my skin starts crawling with annoyance of how easy it is for him to switch back and forth between our two conversations while keeping our two different relationships in mind. I respond, “sure love! (I leave the table for two seconds and look back!) I see arms flying, their mouths looking like they’re going one hundred miles per minute. I never see this kind of behavior until he is around his

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