Challenges Of Assimilation

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It is the dream of every immigrant, to live a worry free life in a new country that can offer so much. A place where one can work for suitable wages, a place where one can raise their children free of the problems plaguing their previous country and a place where one can grow spiritually and socially. Assimilation can be drastic or very simple, from changing the type of food one eats to converting one's religious beliefs. The determining factors of whether to adapt or not are the morals and beliefs that the immigrant has been brought up on. If the immigrant was brought up on strong morals and beliefs towards their religion and nationality, chances are that the immigrant would rather be alienated and looked down upon rather than conforming to …show more content…

The main reason why they came to New York City was that during that time, Sri Lanka was having a civil war. So they decided to move somewhere with opportunities in employment and education for both them and their future children. When my parents first came to New York City, they saw many different types of people, life styles, languages and ways of acting. The language barrier however was not very difficult considering the fact that they learned English in school in Sri Lanka. The dream for their future life was very hard for them to fulfill in New York City. If somebody asked them any questions, sometimes they answered without making sense. My parents would be scared to go out to public places such as restaurants or parks because they were scared they wouldn’t adjust to the habitat. Sometimes if my mom or dad said something wrong, people would laugh at them. The start of my parents’ life in New York was very hard for them. They tried to find the Sri Lankan community here to gain connections and contacts. Unfortunately, not many Sri Lankans lived in New York. Then they moved from Manhattan to Staten Island, where my mom took classes at CSI to finish her schooling and get her degree in therapy. The education system in America was very different from the one in Sri Lanka. Most of the time my mother didn’t even know what people were talking about.

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