Young people more and more often ask themselves what is better: be in a relationship or being single. Nowadays, being in a relationship is too difficult for young people. They are too busy to bother with building relationships – they have to study and often work at the same time. But is a relationship such a big burden as they seem? There are some advantages and also disadvantages of being in relationship, but being alone is not a good solution either. Now, I would like to compare and contrast those two statements.
Firstly, being in a relationship with a person that you love can bring you more satisfaction and pleasure than being single. We can confess, complain and what is more important, we can talk to each other about our problems or just for fun. Second difference is that, people who begin to build relationships while they are still young and, more emotionally stable and when they will grow up, they will be able to create a happy family.
Being single also has its positive features. You can do whatever you want to; you are not limited by girlfriend or wife who usually you have to listen to. We decide about our life and no matter what we do, it is always our choice, basically we are responsible for decisions that we made. we do not have to change our life, habits. Singles don’t need to care about other person’s moods.
Being in a relationship, we build particular kind of feelings, which are based on trust, friendship and true love. However, a relationship can give us many feelings which we can’t get from friends or family. A good offers you all the wonderful things of friendship, but with a special closeness and intimacy. A good relationship will teach you to work as a team, and hopefully both people being to...
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... where it’s okay to hook up with random people. College is also a great time to find meaningful relationships. You can easily find people with the same interests through student activities and classes. Despite the fact that relationships are a mutual agreement between two people, some people are ready for long-term commitments when they are in high school.
It’s tough decision for a lot of teens to make, but if you decide that being in a relationship during college isn’t for you than it’s your choice. There are plenty opportunities to meet young people. If you want to be in a relationship during college be honest to your partner and yourself. Statistically, relationships in college tend to be more successful than high school relationships if you find the right person.
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www.gurl.com www.teenvogue.com www.collegelife.about.com
www.thecampuscompanion.com
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