Being a mentor has taught me many things such as how to deal with different problems in life, help others, keep conversations going, being in charge of a group and being a role model. All these things have helped me in not only school but also my social life. They helped me with life problems because when I get stuck in a sticky situation and I don't know what to do I think of the advise I would give others and rely on my own decisions not anyone else’s. Mentoring helped me become more responsible and be more confident in my own decisions. If I wouldn’t have been apart of the mentor program this year I don’t think I would be half as mature as I am now. I appreciate all the opportunities the program gave me like making new friends, building more relationships with different people and helping me become more accepting. I now am able to keep a conversation in a group going when things seem to get awkward or quite. I feel like this is an important trait to have because depending on …show more content…
These are things that have helped me in my life but I also feel like I have achieved things in my mentee’s life’s as well. For an example when my group talked about grief I used my own life as an example. Given my mom passed away at such a young age for me and my father decided his family was too much to handle and left I had a lot to grieve with. I used this not to make my mentee’s feel bad for me but see how you can hit rick bottom but when you hit that you can always only go up and not look at the negatives and tell them it is okay to feel everything you feel. I truly think I was able to teach them a lesson that will stick with them for a long time and nothing has every felt so
The most meaningful and challenging experiences in my life have been through sports and the 4-H club. They have instilled the values of perseverance, confidence, and teamwork within me. I feel that my peers and others could learn valuable life lessons through participating in these organizations. They are not just clubs, but a guiding light for life. For example in sports I have had the opportunity to play on both losing and winning teams. This has given me a different perspective of looking at things. I now realize that even if you fail or lose that is no reason to give up, you still have to get right back up. Just realize your mistakes and errors. Then come back the next time, mentally and physically, ready to meet the challenge. To often in life youth and adults alike fail at something and automatically think that they cannot do it, and give up. Instead of just pushing themselves to run another lap, lift another set, study for another hour, or learn another theorem. Imagine a world if the early American settlers had given in to the British, if the North had given in to the South after the first loss of the civil war, or if Michael Jordan had given up after being cut from the team in high school. People just need to learn to have perseverance and believe in themselves. 4-H has been a series of stepping-stones for me. When I first started out at age four I was shy and afraid to do things that I had not done before, but now I have blossomed into a confident and outgoing young man. I no longer fear getting up in front of large groups and speaking because of the experiences I've had in public speaking events. In addition, 4-H has given me the chance to develop myself as a leader. Over the years I have held various leadership positions on the club, county, and district levels. Also, 4-H has given me the chance to go into the community and help people by leading youth in workshops, assisting the handicap and elderly, and also learn from what others have to teach. In both of these organizations I learned the need for teamwork. For example last year my football team went 0-11 and the main reason because of that was we were not a team.
One of the possible research topics I plan to undertake involves analyzing the impact that mentoring can have on the graduation success rate of African American males, particularly when the mentor is a Black male and the relationship takes place in the south. In my opinion, these relationships can have a profound impact on a student’s ability to persist towards graduating from college. Though my research, I want to hear the stories of Black males who have benefited from successful mentoring relationships with other Black men. I believe that establishing a strong mentoring relationship with Black males at a young age can greatly improve their chance of academic success. Furthermore, I believe that mentoring is a strong early intervention mechanism to prevent Black males from dropping out of high school and deterring them from pursuing degrees in higher education. At the same time, I would like my research interest to focus on African American males in the south, but I would like my scope to focus on mentoring relationships between black men; both structured and unstructured.
Throughout my life, I have found myself always striving to help others. This has been bestowed upon me since I was a young child. My brother, Justin was born with health problems. He had to be fed through his stomach from birth to he was five years of age. Because of Justin’s health conditions he was a lot smaller than kids his age. He was held back in school for a year and he was still eight inches shorter than the other kids in his class. With all of his ailments and his stature I felt that it was up to me, his big brother, to be there for him and defend him from anyone picking or ridiculing him. I later helped my mother teach second grade kids in Sunday school. This opened my eyes to a lot of learning diversities
I truly believe this is what lead me to being a teacher and a leader. I had a need to make the lives of my students the best they can be. My goal at the start of every school-year, if nothing else, was to make my kids feel loved and safe. The students whose lives were similar to the one I experienced were especially close to my heart. I may not know exactly what they were facing when they reached home each evening, but I wanted to be sure their days were the best they could possibly be and they had someone who loved and cared for them and that nothing they could say or do would ever change
There is little scientific knowledge when it comes to mentoring effects on future outcomes; in addition posing confusion as to how these programs continue to emerge. A major component in regards to program effectiveness is in measurement or evaluation of its structure (Deutsch, N., & Spencer, R., 2009). This is done by conducting surveys, focus groups, and interviews (Deutsch, N., & Spencer, R. (2009); Karcher, M., & Nakkula, M. (2010); Diehl, D. C., Howse, R. B., & Trivette, C. M. (2011); Osgood, 2012; Williams, 2011). Studies gives the researcher insight into knowledge that otherwise wouldn’t be known, in order to understand mentoring reactions and relationship styles better (Karcher, M., & Nakkula, M. (2010); Christens, B. D., & Peterson, N. A. (2012); Diehl et al., 2011; Leyton‐Armakan, J., Lawrence, E., Deutsch, N., Lee Williams, J., & Henneberger, A. (2012); Meyer, K. C., & Bouchey, H. A. (2010).
Goldman (1995) discusses how leaders with high emotional intelligence are able to assess, identify, and predict others emotions while being able to effectively manage their own feelings as they interact with others. Leaders who have high emotional intelligence have the abilities to motivate oneself and persist during difficult situations, they are able to control impulses or emotions, they are capable of regulating their moods, they are able to think during difficult situations as well as empathize with others. This type of leader is able to not only recognize their own emotions, but also recognize the emotions and well-being of people around them. The author describes the importance of listening to others, being self-aware, using self-regulation,
During the experiences that I’ve had while doing this community outreach I’ve observed that at first you can tell that these young men weren’t very excited maybe because they’re mindsets are that the most important people in their lives abandoned them soon we will too. So that it was difficult for the young men to open up so we started of doing activates such as playing sports and watching movies to get closer to the young men. After a while I started to see a sense of acceptance by some of the young boys, we still kept our composer by not pushing to strong in order for these young men to see that we are here for good not to make them feel like a charity case. As soon after the young men began to show interest in what we were trying to do and our purpose of what we were doing, we explained that we wanted to be mentors to them more like “big brothers” we all are not far from age but still time is the best teacher so we use our experiences to help. With that I also experienced during this active part in the community is that these kids have went through more troubling things in their lives than I have and I am their mentors. That’s when the word of...
Mentorship is an integral part of nursing profession as qualified nurse have the responsibility of supporting and developing future nurses (Hodges, 2009). Hence, this essay will discuss Strategies a mentor can implement to support an underperforming learner in a practice environment. Mentorship is essential in the training and development of nursing student. This will explore how a mentor can identify underperforming learner, evaluate mentors interventions and discuss accountability in relation to decision making to the learners achievements.
Mentors and mentees each benefit from successful relationships with one another due to the newfound success for the mentee and the the satisfaction reward for the mentor by seeing a person they guided make an achievement. Success from one of these relationships was found in a study conducted during 2015, where 1,139 students from 11 years and above in different school districts served as subjects. In the study, half of the adolescents received mentors while the other half would receive one following the study. After students with a mentor spent time with them, the students were provided with a survey in which students who reported their relationship with their mentor was “close” or “somewhat close” had widespread academic improvement. As a result of the experiment, it is evident that a significant number of students benefit from a mentor being by their side. If the mentee sensed an emotional connection with the mentor, that was all they needed to succeed in school, even though academic-related tasks may not have been on the agenda for the mentors and mentees during their time together
You will interact with numerous people during your lifetime; however, only important and significant people will make influences in your life. In the movie Something the Lord Made directed by Joseph Sargent, Vivien Thomas, an African-American carpenter who dreams of going to college and becoming a doctor, is forced to work as a lab assistant under the instructions and guidance of an arrogant and eccentric cardiologist, Dr. Alfred Blalock. Despite having no college degree, Vivien Thomas is able to learn medical and surgical skills through the guidance of Dr. Blalock, and their cooperation ultimately leads to the discovery of a cure for blue baby syndrome. Similar to Dr. Blalock’s tutelage, I have learned to love biology under the teaching and mentoring of my biology teacher, Dr. Cron. Even though both Dr. Cron and Dr. Blalock are excellent instructors, they are extremely and uniquely different in their mentoring styles. Differences in mentoring styles can have huge influences and impacts on the mentees’ development of skills, and personalities.
Students of the Youth Mentorship Program are encouraged to focus on their strengths, set high expectations and to take advantage of the alternatives available to them in order to succeed. As a part of YMP, The mentor/mentee relationship is specifically designed to help at‐ risk adolescents ages 11‐14 remain focused and have self‐determination as they continue on in their teenage
As they enter the classroom they see all of the children smiling at their desks, beaming with joy. Knowing that they are the cause of their happiness makes what they are doing worthwhile. There is nothing more accomplishing than seeing children succeeding in their education. Mentoring does not only benefit the children involved, but also the mentors. Children gain new role models that will help shape them into who they are, plus they will also gain friendships.
For the past two weeks, I have gotten to know some wonderful high school students. Also, I have had the opportunity to work with mentors who have been extremely helpful and a presenter that inspires the students to work hard. However, there are a few things that I wish I had known before the institute began, like how to get students to open up, how to teach concepts that are foreign to them, and how to allow the students to have some freedom in the classroom.
My peer tutoring class brought on many positive learning and social experiences. Upon enrolling in the class I would have never been able to grasp the level of ownership towards the class and students. Not long into the semester Mr. Graham and I started calling it our class and our students. Each one of the students, even the ones who I may not have gotten along with, helding meaning to me and I felt myself constantly rooting for their success and feeling pride upon any achievement. An example of this is when a student in my class showed potential to move up from locally developed math to applied and when she agreed to try and make the jump my enthusiasm was unsurpassed. Once she made the decision to do so I did everything in my power to ensure she could achieve it because I wanted to see her do the best she could.
That is the reason I was selected to be a mentor three consecutive years, tenth, eleventh, and twelfth grade. Every year, I get assign four students from different grade levels to help them improve academically and support them emotionally. Being a mentor has motivated me to be the best version of me; to offer a hand to those in need. Following my mother’s footsteps, I want to change and save lives through a medical career. I hope to hold that ability someday. I hope one day I become someone who inspires others to keep going, and to never give up until they accomplish their