Battling Yourself

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An old Norwegian folk tale once told the story of a queen who, because she couldn’t have children, looked to an old hag for wisdom and magic to help grant her wish. The woman agrees, telling the queen that she must place two cups face down in her garden before going to bed. When she wakes up the next morning, a white flower should be growing under one and a red flower under the other. Depending on which one the queen decides to eat, she could either have a son or a daughter. However, the old woman warns her that under no circumstances should she eat both. The queen does as she is instructed, but she cannot decide which flower to eat when the time comes. She wants a daughter because a boy could die in war, but she wants a son because a girl is married off to another family. In the end, she eats both flowers due to her own greed, even though the old woman warned her against just that. Nine months later, the queen gives birth to a handsome baby boy and a disgusting snake-like creature called a lindworm. Although this fairy tale has a happy ending, the queen herself is the catalyst of this story. More specifically, her self-defeating behaviors, which range from simply not following directions to greed. However, The Lindworm is not the only story that has characters with self-defeating behaviors. In fact, they are present in many pieces of literature. Boys of Baraka is a film about a group of boys who are taken out of their homes and away from negative influences so that they can learn and go to school in a fitting environment, and it has multiple examples of self-defeating behaviors because several of the boys who've attended the school are prone to fits of anger and have trouble with letting their feelings control them. The book, D...

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...what people have done to her. Furthermore, she continuously points out the flaws in how her friend Leila's mother raises her children. She's a very strict parent, and is always trying to arrange marriages for Leila, along with telling her not to pursue her career because her place is at home. Her attitude frustrates Amal, and she lashes out at Leila's mom numerous times for being a bad parent. Her own mother tries to explain that Leila's mother is raising her that way because it's how she was brought up, but Amal won't take that as an excuse. She is always forgetting how it feels when people assume they know who she is and jump to conclusions about her personality, but she does this to others multiple times in the story. Clearly, criticizing others is a self-defeating behavior that Amal has, and even though she knows exactly how it feels, she never tries to fix it.

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