Avoid Conflict Resolution

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For many people conflicts can be a devastating or frightening occurrence, and for those many dealing with them is incredibly difficult. Some may not even know how to deal with these conflicts, which can create stress and discomfort in the workplace. If you are dealing with a conflict in your place of work, what steps can you take to remedy the situation and ensure your happiness and comfort? To start simply, talk to the person (or group) in question; try and understand what the problem is from their perspective and attempt to find an equal ground to work on to help resolve the issue that has arisen. If the particular conflict does not diretly relate to you, try being the neutral party if you find their disagreements are impacting your work; …show more content…

Never assume that someone is seeing exactly what you are, as in many cases they will not be and that can later cause issues when later on you are comparing work, or could simply cause bitter arguments and unneeded stress for something that could have been easily avoided. Make sure your questions are not too specific, and that they are open enough that if they are seeing something differently than you, you will be able to tell. Assumptions are never a good thing; it is almost a sure way of getting yourself into an unnecessary …show more content…

The more you let your emotions run wild, the less reasonable you will be if you need to confront the other party, or they choose to confront you. Try and avoid gossiping about the other person (or people) involved, as that could simply add fuel to their fire if they caught wind of it, even if it might help you feel better about the situation. If need be, approach them directly if the conflict does not resolve itself, however be respectful in how you do so. Do not be rude just because you feel entitled to be so, and avoid anything that could be misinterpreted as hostile or that could simply make things worse. It can be easy to do, but difficult to undo if you accidentally send the wrong signal and are

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