“If everything was perfect, you would never learn and you would never grow” (“Beyoncé Knowles”). I strongly agree with this quote and many others. From my life, I have gone through numerous experiences that have transformed me into a better person. A few of those experiences include becoming an older sibling, losing an award, and getting a minor in possession (MIP). I have learned a significant life lesson from becoming an older sister. That life lesson was patience. “The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it” (“Arnold H. Glasow”). In this quote, Arnold H. Glasow is stating that if you wait, then beautiful things come from it. Before my sister was born, I was used to receiving what I wanted, when I wanted. After she was born, I learned to wait for what I covet. I have utilized this lesson in other aspects of my life by waiting for the rewards of my hard work and not fall victim to the immediate gratification. In summary, becoming an older sibling has proved that patience is imperative. I learned another …show more content…
“It is not our mistakes that define who we are; it is how we recover from those mistakes” (“Bo Bennett”). Although getting an MIP was a colossal mistake, it has taught me that making mistakes is okay as long as you recover and learn from them. Furthermore, learning from this mistake has taught me another lesson. “Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts” (“Arnold Bennett”). To recover from the mistake I have made, I have recognized I need to change for the better by removing toxic relationships from my life. I have been too afraid to change for the better because of the drawbacks and discomforts that it would have, but now, I know it is important to change. Given these points, it is evident that I have learned it is okay to make mistakes and to change for the
Arnold Spirit Jr. is the social outcast in his world. He’s ignored, bullied, but still an intelligent teen who is unique, given the fact that he was born with more water in his brain. However, that didn’t stand in the way of Junior since he was able to achieve a dream which is a shift in his life that brought joy. Many obstacles such as deaths of family and poverty may have brought him down, but he came back up stronger. While experiencing many changes throughout the book, Arnold Spirit Jr. reshapes the way people looked at him on the reservation, and at his school, and while trying to find out where he belongs, which shows that the desire to fit in is human nature.
My sister is the individual I go to when I require somebody to converse with, the person who is dependably there and recognizes what to say. My more established sister has affected who I am by showing me the estimation of pride and diligent work and like whatever other more seasoned sister she has been a good example. She would wear something blue so there I was attempting to discover something near to that shading and style; even thought she would get distraught. I grew up seeing her desire for mulling over and buckling down. This taught me that through diligent work anything is
During the course of the story we see many references that Sister is envious, even jealous of Stella-Rondo. Sister thinks that because “Stella-Rondo is exactly twelve months to the day younger [than she is] that she’s spoiled.” (108) A person exactly one year younger than another sibling is no more or less spoiled than the other person. Sister says Stella-Rondo has “always had anything in the world [she]wanted.” This seems to bother Sister because she thought she never got everything she wanted. “Papa-Daddy give [Stella-Rondo] this gorgeous Add-a-pearl necklace”. There are some benefits that naturally go along with being the younger sibling. This does not mean that Sister has to behave the way she does. True, she never references Papa Daddy buying her anything or giving her “everything” she wanted, but she has to take into account what he has done for her. Papa Daddy got her the Post Office job “through [his] influence with the government”, which Sister thinks is the “next smallest P.O. in the entire state of Mississippi”.
Joyce Carol Oates’s“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is a story of a young fifteen-year-old girl named Connie. She was judged by her family members and was conceited in regards to her outward appearance. Since Connie was always held to high standards at home, she eventually became a rebellious teenager. “Everything about her had two sides to it, one for home and one for anywhere that was not home (Oates, 507).” On a particular Sunday, Connie’s parents and sister were going to a barbecue, Connie did not want to attend the family gathering and stayed home. Shortly after, two teenage boys named Arnold Friend and Ellie, showed up at her house. Arnold Friend begins telling Connie about facts that only she is aware of. Furthermore, Connie
It seems that every sibling doesn’t always have a great relationship with their older or younger siblings. In the movie “Real Women Have Curves”, we have two sisters, Anna and Estella,who seem not to get along in the beginning because of their differences, but at the end they become the best of friends because they have similar dreams and learn to support each other. The advantage of Anna and Estella’s relationship is that they benefit from each other. The whole story is that you don’t always realize how much you have in common with your siblings until you realize that you have similar dreams and can be there for each other.
All decisions have consequences, either positive or negative and reflect on the person’s quality of choices. Negative decisions lead to negative consequences and all positive decisions lead to better improvement of a person’s life, especially young adults in high school. Drugs abuse and alcohol abuse are destroying the men and women parents are molding for the future.
I was failing at civilian life because of my own misdoings. I allowed the impact of things I couldn’t control affect the way I looked at the world. I was even going to let go of something I really wanted in life simply because someone else didn’t want it for me. We only get one shot at life. It’s unfair to ask and expect someone to live their live by another’s expectations. I’ve learned that making a mistake today doesn’t make you a screw up for the rest of your
transition here to conclusion→ Experiences shape our lives; the good and bad, have altered our outlook on life and our future. Experiences that we encounter influence our thinking, perceptions, ideas, and beliefs and how we react to our experiences shape our lives. Problems are inevitable and hard to avoid, but it is our ability to turn bad situation into something inspirational and good in our lives that says a lot about our character. Instead of focusing on the problems in our lives, we should focus on the opportunities given to us to learn from the experiences. Change will only happen in our lives when we have a change of attitude towards the negative situations in our life. The ability to turn a bad influence or situation into something positive opens up new behaviors and the chance for happiness.
...s. There will be unresolved issues from my past that will that could influence my future practice. My issue of feeling unimportant to my mom is still a struggle to this day. As a practitioner I know many clients will be coming to me with the same issue. I must learn to deal with clients’ needs at that moment and not focus my own unresolved issues. I realized that I still have some residing issues from childhood, but they have not been controlling me for a long time. I have accepted each negative and positive event of my life. Life changes and I finally learned to change with it. I try to learn from my parents mistakes and work hard on being a better parent. My childhood was also filled with many positive aspects which make accepting the negative aspects much easier. My past has set me on a path of helping others overcome the negatives in their life.
...ed. Kluger believes the bond between siblings only grows stronger with age (“The Science of New Siblings”). I greatly agree with him on this statement. My sisters and I have grown closer with every year. Whether we are shopping or watching movies back to back, I help flourish a close bond between my sisters and I. My sisters and I share closeness I will never find with anyone else, and I can only hope our bond continues to grow.
...you in your past, you are not your past, you are the resources and the capabilities you glean from it. And that is the basis for all change.” In conclusion, learn from your mistakes, remember what talents got you where you are today and success will eventually come along the way.
Why do you need to learn from your mistakes? The most important life lessons we will ever learn will be from the bad decisions we make. Time and experience can be excellent teachers w...
When I left my room, my mother knew that I had gone through a rough time, and I did not want to talk to her about it. Even though there was only a month left in my school year, I promised myself that I would be completely truthful to my friends, my family, my heritage, and myself. I expected all my friends to leave me, but I was fully prepared for this. However, none of this ever happened. My friends didn’t leave me, I wasn’t alone at the lunch table, I wasn’t even seem differently by those around me. I had failed my family by doing this, and I wished I had stopped acting like someone I wasn’t sooner. This is one of the only mistakes I have made which I consider a failure because it had taken me close to a year to fix, and this is why I consider it my most successful failure.
...cy that left behind would not be here today. Like a sermon that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wrote, “ I want you to be the first in love, I want you to be the first in moral excellence, I want you to be the first in generosity…” What this quote meant to me meant a lot in self-improvement. If you want to change be the first one to change. Don’t wait for someone else but take the initiative, take the action! But here’s the catch! Don’t wait to try to self-improve when you think you’re ready because if you wait to when you think you’re ready, you will never self-improve. This kind of ties up to “When do we need to self-improve?” and “How do we self-improve?” Overall, Self-improving is key in someone’s life. Without it, we wouldn’t be where we were in the past, who we are in the present and who will be become in the future. It is needed in our lives, no doubt about it.
To be the person that I am now, I had to reflect and accept accountability of my past actions. My past is one that many would love to erase from their memory, a past, which remained dormant, until I found myself. The steps involved in regaining myself encompassed letting go of my anger and self pity. I had to look within myself and see my self’s worth, which lead to my belief that I ran away to college to forget my past. During the years leading to entrance to college, I became caught up with friends, cared way too much about my appearance, and became “that girl” who needed others to be happy. I lost sight of my goal, to become a lawyer. My goals were buried by my present materialization infatuation, thus my dreams, and my values, failed just to create a façade of which I came to despise. Through my journey and reflection, I came to appreciate family values and redemption. Like others, my trials and tribulations came full circle.