Analysis Of Ugly, By Robert Hoge

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Mary Hoge had gone into labor Sunday 23rd of July 1972 giving birth to her fifth child, Robert Hoge. When Robert Hoge was born, his own mother didn’t want him. Robert’s mother Mary thought he was too ugly, that he was, in appearance, a monstrous baby. Robert was born with a tumor the size of a tennis ball right in the middle of his face and with short twisted legs. Robert was born in Australia, where he would have to undergo numerous operations that carried very high risk in order to try and live a “normal” life. I read the book Ugly written by Robert Hoge, which is a true story about Robert’s life growing up with a “disability”. Robert started off his book about the art of being ugly. Robert grew up with four other siblings, who were perfectly …show more content…

For future practice in social work, I learned that it is important to empower your clients to set goals and help push them to reach those goals. Robert wanted to plays sports and kept trying until he found a sport that was the best fit for him. Snow (2013a) talked about “the ‘problem’ of disability is not within the person, but within the social attitudes, and our attitudes shape the world we live in” (p.119). I agree with Snow, if our attitudes in society don’t change about “disabilities” the person will never feel completely welcomed or “fit” for …show more content…

It allowed myself to get a better understand of how important this is. One big decision Robert had is if he wanted to go through with a final procedure to smooth out his face and make corrections having high risks. Robert’s parents let him make this decision knowing Robert knew what would be best for him and his future. Snow (2013b) talked lots about People First Language and the effects of special education. “When we call a child a ‘special ed student,’ ‘sped kid,’ or something similar, we’re not using People First Language” (p.136). Robert went to a mainstream school where he made friends, but also was faced with tough situations. Robert wasn’t able to go run around on the playground like other kids or go up and down the stairs of the school as fast. Once Robert became more comfortable around friends he started to remove is prosthetic leg as it caused more

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