Adoption Essay

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Aleksandar Stoiljkovic

SOC 315,PROF. RICHARD FEY
Date: April, 22nd, 2014

ADOPTION

Adoption means permanent, legal transfer of parental rights and responsibilities from a child’s birth parents to the adoptive parents (Wikipedia.com). Adoption is a way to build a family or join a family. It is a proces of finding homes for children that need them. The parents who adopt the children are responsible to feed, clothe, house, and educate them (Wilipedia.com). And of course the most important thing adoption parents need to provide childrend with unconditional love. No children deseve to be homeless, hungry and unprotected.On the other hand adoption is not the same as a fostering a child. Adoption should be life-long process and in the foster care parents have to say goodbye to the children at some point. The movie that I choose to use as an example is “Losing Isaiah”. The movie shows the relationhip between Isaiah between his bilogical mother and his relationhip with his adoptive mother. At the end all came to the point where Isaiah's happiness was most important, whetever he decided to stay with his adoptive mother or his biological mother. The children's happines was number one priority for both mothers.

Adoption is a way to create and to expand a family. Common sense tell us that people are adopting the children to provide them with basic neccesitiess and give them unconditional love. But the history shows that adoptions were not conducted in the interests of children. In the Roman Empire abandoned childrens often became slaves. On the other hand, the aristocracy w...

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... many reasons. We shouldnt judge the people who are giving their children for adoption. By doing that they are hoping that their children will have better lives, that they cant afford them. Parenting adopted children can be rewarding. If you are able to offer love, commitment, time, patience and the motivation to want to understand how your child sees the world, then that is a great start and the rewards will be limitless. Children need families from all sorts of different backgrounds. Whether you are married or single, divorced or living with a partner, unemployed or disabled, and whatever your cultural background adoption is the right choice. (paraphrase whole paragraph). Life without children is worthless. Because the children are the only reason and the only reward that someone can get. There are so many abandoned children in this world that need to be adopted.

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