Adolescents Belonging

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Adolescents learn how to build secure and healthy relationships with teachers, parents, caregivers, and friends. Teenagers often experiment with various personalities and identities, and these interactions all play a part in how they develop their identities. In adolescence, peers are important in shaping an individual's identity. Maintaining a supportive and healthy relationship in adolescence, however, requires relationships with caring adults, such as parents or caregivers, mentors, or coaches. How you can help adolescents and their caregivers to maintain (or in some cases develop) a supportive and positive relationship. From the video What Adolescents (or Teenagers) Need to Thrive, to help adolescents and caregivers support a positive, …show more content…

In addition to being able to forgive, accepting that everyone makes mistakes, and knowing when to give in are all important components of acceptance (TEDx Talks 2016, May 5). It is acceptable to agree to disagree with an adolescent; acceptance does not require constant agreement. Adolescents who have unique needs, expectations, or beliefs should be accepted for who they are. This involves appreciating their differences and working out a compromise. B (Belonging) - According to Goodenow and Leeke (2007), belonging in the context of the family system is defined as feeling understood, included in the entire household, wanting to spend time together, having fun together, and receiving attention. High family belonging fosters life satisfaction and a forward-looking outlook while shielding adolescents from emotional distress, delinquency, substance abuse, and academic difficulties (Jose et al., …show more content…

It will enable them to come up with fresh approaches to problem-solving and thinking. They will begin to understand the consequences of their actions, which teaches teenagers to accept accountability for their actions, rather than placing the blame elsewhere. This helps them become more flexible and adaptable in a variety of settings and circumstances. According to the video Turning parent-teen stress into parent-teen success, Neil D Brown suggested that parents should not attach consequences or punishment to their teen's negative behaviours and encourage them to believe in themselves because adolescents struggle with self-esteem during the developmental period (TEDx Talks 2017, July 14). Caregivers/parents should appreciate their teens and help them recognise their inner strength and abilities which will boost their self-confidence. How you can help peers to find deeper and supportive connections with one

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