Abstinence Persuasive Essay

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Abstinence is one of the hardest choices for teens to make, but it can also be the most rewarding choice. Nowadays, a lot of people don’t practice abstinence. To some, abstinence may mean no sexual contact at all, to others it may mean no vaginal intercourse but may include oral sex. Because of this, it is important to discuss with your partner clear definitions of what abstinence means to each other. Teens as of this generation don’t know its value. They don’t practice it especially when it comes to sex. Abstinence is refraining from doing something. So in terms of sex, sex abstinence means refraining from having sex. It is important to discuss abstinence especially to teenagers, and it is better if they will be able to practice it. As of today’s generation, it is now recommended to educate teens regarding sex. Parents believe that teenagers should be given a strong knowledge regarding the effects of engaging themselves in sexual intercourse. It may be hard for a person to decide if he or she is going to perform abstinence especially if you have this peer pressure. Those things you see on TV or in the movies also affect your decision. That’s why we have our parents. Parents do have a big …show more content…

Abstinence can last as long or as you want. Some reasons you might choose not to have sex at a particular time such as when you’re more focused on academics or when you're dealing with the end of a recent relationship in a particular circumstances. The reason why it is so hard to practice abstinence is because, nowadays teens are wanting to have sex for their pleasure. Abstinence is the most safest way to avoid HIV/AIDS, and other STDs, and unintended pregnancy. If young people choose to remain abstinent or practice “secondary abstinence,” will help them develop a strategy to do so. Secondary abstinence refers to choosing abstinence after previously engaging in voluntary or coerced

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