1984 Winston's Relationship

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Healthy relationships are a crucial part of growing up and developing properly as a child into an adult. All throughout one’s life, the relationships that form with people influence individual behaviour and mentality. George Orwell’s novel, 1984, is a demonstration of how unhealthy relationships can develop when factors that are out of the control of the characters have an influence on the citizens personal lives. First off, Winston’s connection with his mother showcases how dysfunctional families living under the regime of the Party. Secondly, Winston’s relationship with Julia present the dangers and hurt that the totalitarian government brings upon the people in terms of intimate, romantic relationships. Finally, healthy and trusting friendships …show more content…

Winston only remembers small fragments of his father because the lack of influence he has on Winston’s life. Winston remembers that his father was, “Dark and thin, dressed always in neat dark clothes (Winston remembered especially the very thin soles of his father’s shoes) and wearing spectacles” (29). Because Winston only remembers minor details about his father but he does not remember having a strong connection with him but sees the impact that his disappearance has on his mother. Winston remembers that, “When his father disappeared, his mother did not show any surprise or any violent grief, but a sudden change came over her. She seemed to become completely spiritless” (161). Even though Winston is so young when his father vanishes, he can recognise that pain that his mother feels because of the loss. When the Party took his father away, Winston’s mother fell apart and was not able to care for her children properly. The removal of his father is a demonstration of how the party invades the lives of its citizens and destroys families for unknown reasons. Winston never gets any closure for the disappearance of his father and does not really think about until later on in his life. The Party brainwashes its citizens to not question what happens to the people that are important to them after they are not there …show more content…

Parsons’ family is also an example of how the Party can use its control over the people to destroy families. In Oceania, the Party uses the children as unpaid work for being part of the group called the Spies and Youth League which is similar to the Thought Police but for children. Even at such a young age, the Parsons’ children are affected by the Party in terms of family dynamic and the Parsons’ youngest daughter ends up turning in her own father for Thoughtcrime. When Winston meets Mr. Parsons in the cellar in the Ministry of Love, Mr. Parsons responds to Winston’s question about who turned him by saying, “It was my little daughter. She listened at the keyhole. Heard what I was saying, and nipped off to the patrols the very next day” (233). Mr. Parsons tries to convince himself that he will not be killed for the crime he has committed but it seems that he is not positive that he will survive. Not long after he is brought to Room 101 and it is implied that he is killed. Mr. Parsons’ daughter was obeying the law and following the rules by turning in her father but ultimately she destroyed her family. The influence that the Party has over her was enough for her to turn in her own father knowing what was going to happen to him. The control that the Party has over even the youngest citizens of Oceania is perfectly capable of having detrimental consequences on family

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