Bullied Into Silence

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Harvey Fierstein, noted journalist, encourages us to “never be bullied into silence. Never allow ourselves to be made a victim. Accept no ones definition for your life. Define yourself”. In the novel “The Story of Zahra” written by Hanan al-Shaykh, Zahra was bullied into silence because she allowed herself to be made a victim by accepting others definition for her life; she did not define herself. Conversely, in the play Lysistrata, written by Aristophanes, the protagonist, who went against all odds, was anything but a victim by taking the leading role in a protest against the men; she took a stand for what she believed in. Zahra and Lysistrata were both women who faced unstable and dangerous relationships with men, but all similarities end there. The way in which these two women handled their circumstances were completely antithetical which, as a result, caused different endings to each women’s journey. As the Peloponnesian war breaks out in ancient Greece, Lysistrata goes to great measures to bring it to a halt. She seeks out the help of the other women of Athens and Sparta. Lysistrata tells them to take an oath to withhold from sex with their husbands. “I will withhold all rights of access or entrance” (Pg. 40) is the promise these women are asked to adhere to. They refuse the idea at first with no hesitation. Lysistrata is quixotic to many and her plan is unexceptable. Soon, after much convincing, the women agree to withhold from any sexual intercourse with their husbands until they sign a peace treaty and end the war. The women are very straight forward with their demands. Consequently, the men become enraged and are even “threatening women with rubbish disposal! How ghastly-how gauche!” (Pg.50).The men were astounded by th... ... middle of paper ... ...nces of not using it. Lysistrata represents the women who saw a problem and dedicated her time to fix it. It was an extreme risk but she knew it was one she had to take and in the end it all worked out for her. Zahra represents the women who, through a sense of fear or obligation, took the role of a woman. She was inferior to all and submitted her mind, body, and soul to all. Instead of screaming at the top of her lungs what she really felt, Zahra hid in the bathroom. Lysistrata makes it out of her predicament getting what she set out to get while Zahra is shot and killed. It just goes to show how important having your own voice is. Works Cited Lysistrata. Signet Classic, 2009. Print. Harvey fierstein quotes . (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/4775.Harvey_Fierstein Shaykh, Ḥanān. The story of Zahra. Anchor, 1996. Print.

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