Becoming Less Social Due to Smartphones

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I “thumb away” mindlessly on my BlackBerry; replying, updating, planning, capturing, the list goes on and on. The AMOLED screen glows a dull shade of white as the red LED light on the top right corner blinks repeatedly feeding my undying obsession with what many now label the “Crackberry”, for obvious reasons. I find my self confined to that impeccably set QWERTY keyboard and the capacitative touchscreen display. My universe is closed. This was not always the case, however. Two years ago I went to boarding school, where cell phones were strictly banned. There was no form of digital communication except telephone calls with parents - from 7pm to 9pm. We used to communicate differently then. There was a much more humane accent to how we conducted ourselves socially. There was no one lost in his game of “Temple Run” or not paying attention because he is too busy relying to a text. Face-to-face communication was the norm. Planning tasks or events was done in groups instead of mere group chats. Friends would share feelings and emotions in person instead of just text messages Dependence on cell phones has certainly changed lives remarkably. The greatest impact is perhaps felt in our social lives. As I relate these two scenes, i can't help but wonder, what my blackberry has done to me overtime? Has it made me less social by making me more hyper connective online? Hyper-connectivity is a term invented by Canadian social scientists Anabel Quan-Haase and Barry Wellman, arising from their studies of person-to-person and person-to-machine communication in networked organizations and networked societies. The term refers to the use of multiple means of communication, such as email, instant messaging, telephone and Web information services (W... ... middle of paper ... ...to convey our message and not face-to-face. Blackberries have undoubtedly done wonders for our everyday life, however the “art of conversation” is becoming a thing of the past as we start relying on these communication devices. So rather than going to the of banning blackberry/hyper-connectivity or making attempts of crippling it, we should try to bring a balance between face to face conversations and e-texts. The key to this is to nurture interpersonal intelligence which is “the ability to know when, where, and for what purpose technology is appropriate or inappropriate”(Michael Bugeja author of The Search For Community In Technology Age). We need to make a clear distinction between the right and wrong usage of our devices. We need to unplug ourselves more to interact with the people around us and not getting immersed in the closed universe of Blackberries.

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